Life is complete

 Gratitude, mindful eating. Remembering my attainments.. Family, job, home, royal Life. loving towards all. 

'Pa liya. ''....A Voice from heart.....

No race, no wandering, no questions. This is life. Acceptance. Living full. Enjoying every scene. All variety. All are important, all are beautiful, Together we make our Lives heaven. We complete each other. That's the beauty, that's our strength. We are interdependent, neither dependent nor independent. Drama is accurate, made in our favour, I transform & evolve myself into a new self everytime i face a situation . I catch synchronicities around and feel blessed creating my own destiny. I free myself from past & bring all my energies into present & feel proud of myself. Life is complete, I have nothing to worry or race for. I am at peace with myself. 

Love & rememberances!

Can we change our parts in this Drama

 

We are creators of drama.Are'nt we?How A path is formed.Think A little! Of course we all know being self realised souls that a path is formed by walking.Nothing is predestined here. We have been given a beautiful gift as an individual unique soul of "being creative." Only Human mind has this special blessing of being able to think, analyse, choose and create responses.Drama is created on account of our will power. Is it not? We have the power to create thoughts, god has given us the treasure of pure & elevated thoughts with which we create motivation in our being and create our responses in any situation which further leads to increased self confidence in the soul which further takes us into being more & more positive in our approach towards life's situations. Yes? This is all being getting recorded in the soul as we are moving forward in our lives .This is leading us to develop new belief systems & hence making it easy for us make our parts in drama elevated and choose right responses with a sense of divinity & god's dictates.(srimat).Therefore we are creating our drama here & recording our elevated parts to create a destiny of our choice. Hence the saying "bana banaya" drama. When it's time to act, we are creating the drama "Drama bana rahe hai"but when it's recorded in us it comes as sanskaars or 'latent tendencies' for the next time, then you call it "Drama bana huya hai".So, The Happy news is no matter how adverse may be the past, everytime we have an opportunity to forget old,start afresh, create new sanskaars or simply habits & write our destiny 🍃💦fresh in our record 📕book based on our fresh & refined understanding.Therefore accurate drama, fair drama, beneficial drama. Wah ❤drama Wah!!❤ Wah❤ baba Wah!! ❤

In Father's Remembrance, 

Godly actor. 

Sewa from home.

Rights comes with responsibility . Baba ghar mein aise hi nai baithne deta.. Ghar mein rehne walo  zada responsibility ho jati.. Un par toh baba zada nazar rakhta.. Achche karmo ka fal jama karta aur ek saath cash karta khushi ya sahyog ke dwara. Bas karm humare vidhi purvak ho laws ko samajh ke. Andar bahar ek ho. Jaise kisi ko kuchh samjhana hota hai.. Toh shubh bhavna.. Sneh emerge roop mein.. Unka time..  Unki position ki respect ko dhyan mein rakhte huye.. Friends ban ke.. Real mein.. Kuchh sikhane ki bhavna ke sath.. Unse kuchh seekhne ki bhi bhavna.. Toh kabhi expectations, frustration, hatered nai aati.. Aur hi enjoyment, praapti and self respect feel hoti hai.. Skills badhti jati.. Buddhi shudh gyan dharan karne ke liye taiyaari ho jati.. Sanskaar divya ban jate.. Hisab rakhna chhut jata.. Galtiyan dekhna chhut jata.. Mainpan bhi chhut jata.. Khushi santushtata, nirbhayta natural ho jati

Why I am here:doing everything artha sahit

Silence power.. Awaaz se pare. Abhi abhi sewa  artha neeche aaye.. Abhi abhi paar. 

Vyakt mein avyakt bhasna aani chahiye. 

A vakt vatan bhasnA chaiye. Kheench honi chahiye. Ghar yaad aana chaiye. Khel poora hua.. Drama poora..hum ja rahe hai. 

 har karm se baap dikhai de. Baap ke charitr dikhai de. Humare nayan, humari vaani, humari chalan divya ho, aneko ko aatam abhimani bnane wali. Drishti, vritti

Mein ruhaniyat ho. Baatcheet badi Royalty se karte ho.. Devi manners. Namrata se chale. Muskuraye. Yai humari Sanskriti hai.. Sanskar hai.yai humari Mahanta hai. Yai humari Unchai hai.Badai hai.. 

Hum stage par hai.. Jimmewar hai.. Aneko ko uthane ke nimit hai. Chalan ka bada attention. Koi dekhe toh khush ho jaye..ye toh jaise devta hai. Inhe sikhane wala kon. Rachna apne rahta ka parichay de. Father ka show ho. Naam bala. Halki awaaz   se bolna.. Meetha meetha.. Chalna.. Hasna foolon sa.. Raas bhi badi sense ke saath.. Yaad mein. Ruhaniyat ke sath. Nyara pyara. Sambandh sampark/sewa ke vistaar mein aate behad ka vairaag merge na ho. 

Ours is A yogi life.. Never to be forgotten. 

We are dancing, playing, eating, living together due to karmic accounts & we are justifying our student life by our karmas. Happily doing things for creating our new world otherwise there is no happiness in this dirty world. A new world means a new way of thinking, A new attitude, adopting greatness, becoming completely pure & viceless, worship worthy deity .Am I feeling that change Or just enjoying & passing time with eating,playing,dancing.Vidhi  ko ek rasam bna kar toh nai jee rahe.. Yaad kar liya.. Kaam poora hua. Aim & object bhi aati hai buddhi mein that why I am doing this playing, dancing eating with all. All this is godly plan. Is it not? I am Settling my previous karmic account & creating my nEw higher self. Isn't it? Remembering that why I am doing this makes me free from being just caught in the process(eating, playing, singing,dancing, Giving love & happiness to all). 

If the process is not fulfilling my aim & object of becoming a diety then I definitely need to find some other way, may be churning & contemplating over gyan again Or A jwalamukhi yoq tapasya .So look within, understand your individual self, Be honest with yourself & Value all the sacrifices you have made uptill now for coming close to baba in this spiritual life & follow the same trend even now. Don't just swayed & lured into attractions. Accepting attainments ,comforts & positions will finish your sadhana. The series of tyaag, tapasya & all relations with one should continue till end in  order to fulfill this life's purpose , becoming diamond like. Tranform your ways before it's too late. Call upon the inner balance again with baba's help & liberate self of any deceptions. 

With love & good wishes, 

Ruhani social worker✌

High character God's heir(waaris)

Maangne se marna bhala.
When & how to apply this godly version.

Well, I think this is said in order to increase our self respect and character, to make us realise that the satisfaction you get after being independent and working hard is worth all the struggles you do in this age of unrighteousness where survival seems impossible if you follow a righteous path,however baba says and makes us realise that it's not the question of survival it's the question of living, living a life of self respect. Would you like to have someone ruin your values & character and give you few pennies in return(maar khake roti tukkar). So, always working towards being independent and self -reliant and claiming only that much from this world that you really deserve.Infact every soul knows inside how much I have benefited the world through my mind, words & actions. This much judgement we all have about ourselves and therefore can easily evaluate our worth. But still,if despite all efforts and honesty, things are not in your favour, Shiva baba being a merciful father,doesn't make us suffer & die out of scarcity.He stills bestows all his treasures on us without asking anything in return. So, with an understanding,knowledgeful & honest attitude, we can easily distinguish on when to apply which directions of father on self & others., here we discussed"maangne se marna bhala".

Love & Light,
An ocean's 💧drop.

Self victimization to Self Empowerment

बाप समझाते हैं - बच्चे, अन्तर्मुख होकर अपना चार्ट रखो तो जो भूलें होती हैं उनका पश्चाताप् कर सकेंगे। यह जैसे योगबल से अपने को माफ करते हो। बाबा कोई क्षमा या माफ नहीं करते। ड्रामा में क्षमा अक्षर ही नहीं है। तुमको अपनी मेहनत करनी है।"

Read powerful godly versions somewhere recently, presenting my contemplation over the same:-

Drama doesn't have forgiveness, you forgive yourself through checking chart & yoga power. You have to do your own efforts for this. Really?Sometimes, baba says doing mistakes is embeded in drama(noondh), now He is saying forgive yourself through yoga power, that clearly says the one which we call as mistake is a relative thing. In fact this whole knowledge is relative. In one scenerio, we may feel, what we did was right based on a higher understanding (srimat) & at other times, we feel it to be wrong based on our limited intellect & mind's nature of overthinking & racing. So, that's why we always talk of re programming(sadhana) our minds of accepting things which intellect knows to be right but mind creates a storm sometimes due to it's non acceptance & questioning nature Here, comes the effort of empowering our minds & re conditioning it to accept things, which are beyond our old ways of thinking patterns & beliefs.This really is a lifelong process unless you practically gain a position living those truths in real with all around you reinforcing those higher truths in you again & again(making you sit in that higher position themselves).That's why baba always says child keep an aim of a higher position/status which is of use more here than in the golden age.This mind 's conditioning & empowering calls for nirantar yoga. Then automatically your deeds which you considering as mistakes (coz loss may appear after going according to srimat)which certainly are not mistakes (but they seem to be mistakes according to your current state of intellect and it's current dharna/acceptance) calls for yoga power for  doing elevated  deeds only despite opposition from limited intellect & for acceptance of a higher self respect which father is giving us but mind is rejecting it based on its previous deeds. So, in one sentence freeing oneself from self victimization through yog power. 
In another scenerio, if that's really a mistake, then yog is still needed to improve oneself for becoming a better learned good mannered soul. 
So, Drama has no scope for forgiveness but has all the scope for learning & upliftment of mind & it's conditioning.That's the good part and something to rejoice. 

Love & Light, 
Godly star⭐ 

Everything is inside..Free from questions!!

Being a natural yogi.. Means to be the one who knows how a normal human soul lives a natural life.

Expressing, sharing,caring & bringing benefit to all around is its natural sanskaar.(unconditionally & without keeping any previous account) .

Forgiving & forgetting is its natural sanskaar, starting afresh with out any past impressions is its natural state of living.

Acceptance , being loving,  being carefree & easy(Its ok,Never mind! how does it matter,"mera kya jata") is its natural attitude of living.

Working towards fulfilling its dreams, appreciating what it does have, and feeling greatful for all good things in life is a natural way of dwelling in peace with self and others.

Being optimistic & being in your own created state of heaven is every soul's natural approach in life.

All these make each & every soul a carefree high status, fulfilled, emperor.

Carefree, coz we have nothing to worry,

High status coz we think big.

Fulfilled coz we have everything that is more than enough to live a high quality standard life.

Emperor coz we don't race our mind in all directions in quest for winning the world & its offerings.

Rightly said, it's all in the mind.

To summarize, the one who has faith in intellect, is able to enjoy being high status carefree emperor here only and work towards fulfilling their chosen goals in a very balanced state of mind,a mind which appreciates life & all its scenes & remains greatful for being able to distinguish between diamonds & stones, greatful for the ability to see always goodness & benefit in every scene of life.

More than benefit, "goodness" I must say. (Benefit is less visible sometimes, or may be I would say, our stage becomes higher & we really feel fed up evaluating benefit & loss, which is a good sign actually but at the same time makes us vulnerable as we tend to oversee the benefit & live life in a non-appreciating mode which makes life dull & unexiciting) .

So, forget old sanskars & stop being insecure, & then you are there in your golden world.

Love & Light,
A Godly Lamp.  

Purpose of life

The purpose of living is
To fulfill our dreams.
To express our uniqueness
To experience Living values.
To grow and evolve.
and the most importantly coming close to God.
There have been times in the soul journey when it experienced abundance and fulfillment  both internally and externally.That was our golden time.when soul had all its treasure stores full.
Relationships perfect...unconditional,selfless, loving, it's foundation being grounded on trust and whole essence of relationships was to give happiness ,thus freedom was experienced naturally and there was no bondage.
(no insecurity,no lack of trust ,no possesiveness, no selflishness or any kind of business transactions)
A freedom is something that every soul longs for,any kind of physical or mental prison subdues a soul's capability to express itself whether on relationship front or on work front.The unlimited potential that the soul carries within itself comes out best when it is set free.It is important to understand that It is Love in any relation that frees the soul and makes it capable.
A capable soul is able to think and do things creatively which only is the secret for fulfillment and experiencing richness.Thinking different,Thinking New,Thinking Big.Thinking innovative.Thinking out of box is then possible.
We,the souls are here to express and experience life in its full spectrum.
Its the journey of  life ,where we,the living stars experience every feeling,where we taste sweetness of life.
Life is indeed beautiful if we have that third eye to look at it in a very non judgemental & non critical way.
Just look at relationships
father-son
mother-daughter
mother-son
father-daughter
brother-sister
husband-wife
friends
Teacher-student
Guru-disciple
Every relation has a different kind of attainment, uniqueness, Beauty,Royalty & regulation too.
They all are mutually exclusive and no one relation can replace the other ones.Each one has its own beauty and sweetness.In order for the soul to feel complete and grow ,it needs the sweetness and love of all relations.We,the human beings are actually the beings of love and wisdom & knowledge is something which we all carry without exception.Some have knowledge of house keeping,some may have knowledge of shopping and making good wise decisions on budgeting things,others may have good sense on comparing things,finding plus/ minus of things and choosing the best deal,some may be good at making friends.. Each quality is of best use when accompanied with divinity which comes through spiritual knowledge & connection with ocean of love & purity, our Beloved Almighty supreme father. This actually is the only purpose of our lives, to live higher, to live in peace & love(purity) with self & others. 

Love & Light,
A living ⭐star.

Golden age is not far:Beauty & Love all around

Change attitude,
Become beneficial for others,& you become valuable. All good things in life. Free. Start fulfilling others and you fulfill yourself. Value health, value loved ones, value character and you increase your treasures. Help others and you becoming worthy of all the blessings. Embrace life, deepen living. Become available. Give attention and manifest a new reality. Add beauty, add fragnance to living & just enjoy being...still & tranquil.Practise compassion, do an act of kindness, care, share,smile. Donate little,feel abundance, fortunate. Give life and live long. Touch lives and rule hearts.Give rights and Get cooperation. Love unconditionally  and swing in joy, bliss and peace. Give regard and wear the crown 👑 of carefree emperor. Give  flowers 🌸🌺🌻🌹🌷🌼💐of virtues and  keep sitting in garden of Allah. Flow the unadulterated love of God to all and remain filled with his platonic pure sacred love. Shine upon like light in everyone's life & remain full with God's light in every step.Decorate self with the ornaments/jewels of knowledge & keep on radiating your inner beauty.Enrich your life with godly versions, and feel abundance & fortune. Sitting in the garden, river of love flowing, birds 🐦twittering, you wearing a crown,a book in hand enjoying the beauty of 🌿🍃nature, fresh air around, clouds passing  by,  raindroplets on flowers and you singing your songs,sometimes of peace, sometimes of love & sometimes of bliss. Aha.....A feeling of aha..!!

Love & Light,
A diva.

coming out of karmic bondage

  coming  out  of karmic bondage

The karma you are experiencing now is Prarabdha Karma. It is like an arrow that has been shot from the bow – no force can stop it from hitting its target. This karma has started bearing fruit. You have to experience this or “taste” the fruits of your past actions. If the karma is positive, it is called good karma and the fruit will be sweet and tasty. If the karma is negative, it is called bad karma and the fruit will be bitter or even toxic. With the exception of Divine Grace altering our paths, we cannot avoid the experience of our own karma. However, there are ways in which we can handle it better.

1- Accept responsibility.

The first step towards healing yourself from bad karma is to take full and absolute responsibility for where you are in life. Yes, life may seem unfair at times, it may appear that forces beyond your control are dictating your life and that you are helpless in face of everything around you. Yet, despite this, you and only you are responsible for your life and your karma; not anyone or anything outside of you is responsible for it. Even if you do not understand the ways of the Universe, place your trust that it is doing the right thing. Acceptance alone sets into motion the healing process and puts you in a better position to deal with your karma. As you progress on the spiritual path towards Self-realization, you will recognize your ability to influence your own life events.

2- Know that you do not need to resign to your karma.

Everything in your life is in accordance with the law of karma. Every action of the past has already created a result in the form of karma, and it is unfolding in your life right now. But even though the consequences have already been pre-determined in accordance with the causes, it does not mean that your life is pre-determined. Self-effort in dealing with karma plays a critical role in shaping your life. You can deal with the karmic cards you are dealt with more gracefully and even turn your apparent bad karma to your advantage.

3- Stop accumulating new (negative) karma.

If you find yourself in a deep hole which you want to get out of, you need to stop digging the hole deeper. As long as you are existing in the day-to-day realities of modern life, you cannot avoid performing actions. And your actions will have karmic consequences. Then, how is it possible for you to not accrue any further karma, good or bad? The only way you can do it is by detaching yourself from the desire for the action, from the action, and from the outcome or results of the action. Offer the deed that you do to the Supreme Lord, to the Universe, to your higher Self. Do what you need to, but don’t identify yourself as the doer, and with the doership. By consistently detaching yourself from your actions and their outcomes, you are setting yourself free from any further karma.

4- Strike at the root cause of bad karma.

If you can take full responsibility for your karma, you will also realize that you are the creator of your own karma. The bad karma you may be experiencing has its roots deep inside of you, in your past conduct. These are the obstacles or enemies residing within you, that are creating negative karmas. If you can acknowledge this, you are already on your way to deal with negative karma. By willful intentions and actions, you can destroy your inner enemies.

5- Eliminate situations and relationships that sustain negative cycles.


As you go about your life, you may find yourself in situations or relationships that are negative and cyclical. These cycles must be broken or they will continue to contribute to your life negatively. You may have hesitated to walk away from such situations or relationships because either you did not recognize them as such or you feel obligated to not walk away. Unemotionally and peacefully evaluate what is working for you and what is not, and after attempting to resolve the situation, you may need to walk away from what is not serving you. You need not have a conflict in your heart about this. Only when you are able to serve your Self can you help others, so take care of your Self.

6- Seek forgiveness and forgive others.

Do you carry ill-will or anger towards anyone? Is that anger because you feel the other person has wronged you? As long as you harbor negative feelings towards anyone or anything, you continue to attract negative karma and energies in an endless loop. To break this cycle you must let go of your own anger and hatred, you will find yourself more at peace within yourself.

Sometimes, you may find that you hold anger towards yourself. It is even more important to be kind towards yourself, and forgive yourself, and treat yourself with love.

It is also possible that you may have wronged others knowingly or unknowingly in this lifetime or past ones. In your heart, seek forgiveness from those people and their souls. Sincerely and heartfully ask for forgiveness. By seeking forgiveness and forgiving, you are cutting off the karmic shackles and freeing yourself from the bonds that tie you to the cycle of life and rebirth.

Maintain a positive attitude towards everything and everyone in your life. Do good and be good to yourself and others.

Rising above mistakes

Rising above mistakes

Surrender to God ; Dear Shiva, whatever conditions confront me, I know that they represent the next step in my unfoldment. I will welcome all tests because I know that within me is the intelligence to understand and the power to overcome. 🙏🏻📿🙏🏻 Namaste Beautiful Souls.  . 🕉🌀🕉 Failures can be a learning mechanism, and it can also be a success. We are going to fail, we are going to lose, and we are going to make mistakes. It's not a bad thing, we all do that. But the bad thing is not recognising our mistakes and failures, because if you don't recognise you can't learn from them. Admit it, deal with it, learn from it and ultimately succeed from it. It’s your choice. To be positive and free or to be imprisoned by your own negativity. To live in the past or to be hopeful about the present. Don't let the self doubt overcome you. It chips away at your ego and causes you to doubt your abilities, and your self worth. Don't let this negativity overtake you and ask "Am I good enough? Am I worthy?” This self-doubt never helps, and is really just an additional setback compounded on top of the setback your already facing.

It's unfortunate that sometimes things don’t work out, what’s even worse is being stuck in a victim mentality that prevents us from moving forward. Allow yourself to feel the pain, so you can grow beyond it. There's no reason to be ashamed for not expressing the pain. It's sign of human strength. And it's absolutely ok, everyone goes through this kind of phase. Accept the reality and detach from fantasies. To fight against the past will merely waste your time and energy. To wish that things were different gets you nowhere. Remind yourself that it's temporary. After every sunset there's a sunrise. Just as it appears that the sun is going down on you, realise that this a momentary perspective. Things are not over, they are just bleak. These are the opportunities to evolve your perspective and spirit. There's no dead ends in this universe. It is a universe of eternal growth, expansion and unlimitedness. The situation you experience provided you contrast. You will blossom again. That ability never goes away. Your sense of godliness and power always exists. You didn't come into this life to give up that power, its inherent and part of you. You have all the ability within you. It's about your allowing of it. You don't have to create it, it already exist. Allow the shining of your light that you were born to shine.!! Love, light and Peace

Breath,Relax,Go easy

Breath,Relax,Go easy

We all have busy life, have things to do and places to go. But life gets crazy and we don't have time to alleviate stress. We don't have time for meditation and weekend vacations. A few mindset shifts and a couple actions that take only a few minutes can solve the most severe stress related problems. Yes, Slow down. Breathe. Review your commitments and goals. Be in the moment and let go all that you can't control. Unnecessary Fears cause you to be stressed, not external factors. Those external factors are just a part of life, but they become stressful when you have fear in your mind about several things. Your fears are based on some notions in your head about how things are supposed to be. These fantasies are a way to feel in control of a world that you don’t actually control, but they’re hurting you by causing fear and stress. Let go of control. Feel good with chaos and uncertainty, and trust that things will work out. Trust Shiva! Trust Shakti! Accept everything as it is and smile. Try accepting people for who they are and recognise that, like you, they’re imperfect and seeking happiness and struggling with finding it. Change your thoughts, Behind every stressful feeling is an untrue thought. Clear your mind of all such thoughts and you change your world. Go ahead and do this right now to experience a whole new different world! Love, light & Peace

Ocean of knowledge in our Urn(ज्ञान सागर से ज्ञान स्वरुप तक )

Understanding Whole Knowledge in Summary:-

• Variety Drama
  
  Souls have different Roles and occupations(different interests and jobs depending upon that)finishes overestimations and underestimation tendencies.

• Laws of nature

1. Teaching limitations and blessings of different times of the day,Good time for learning,remembering and doing things,
2. Understanding Brain,Heart  & other bodily functions. kidney's role in toxin removal,liver's role bloodflow mechanism's relation to different kinds of feelings we create during the day.Cosmos Relation to our bodies. How planetory movements/stars affect healthy functioning of body based on the feelings we create.We change the feelings/attitude,body becomes healthy,planets/stars comes in our favour.

• Laws of Govt.
  
  Same for all,Leave critisicm or blaming attitude.Serve your creation ,Spread vibrations,empower  your creation. 

• Body
  
  Timely rest,excercise and nutrious food.

• Life
  
  Sufficient Wealth,,facilities,goodwill & success in your Endeavours.

Path of devotion is entirely different,there you sing God's praise,perform
rituals(कर्म काण्ड),perform charity(दान पुण्य ) but don't get the Knowledge:-

• Knowledge of Karma,which Karmas are positive,negative or neutral(कर्म अकर्म विकर्म का ज्ञान )
• Knowledge of Power of Mind(inner powers,unlimited potential of mind )
• Knowledge of Past Births(divine being,deity as first birth in the beginning of world cycle)
• Knowledge of Human Psychology(definitions of right/wrong through different perspectives)
• Knowledge of Neutralizing Sins(negative karmas)by doing antidote karmas with the same souls with whom there is account and letting go of any past burdens.
• Knowledge of God(What karmas are dear to God ,what makes us come closer to him Selfless,Heartful karmas,How He Listens to our silent prayers and How he silently helps us in life's situations and help us rise beyond our limitations.

Purpose and investments for life

1)Progress & Happiness--just for self or for all?

2)Seeing Relationships through different angles.

• Valuable,asset[love,care,support],
• quality time & energy[What I give,comes back],
• Feel responsible and empathetic with them[Only you can fulfill their needs,you are irreplaceable in their life,Its your part].

3)Our conducts while we being on journey of life :

• Where is our focus(qualities or lables or profit/loss),
• Gratefulness for life and its opportunities to be alive (to play,laugh,love,smile,care,give)  or Competetive/Ambitious attitude(me & mine,racing attitude)

Things to Keep in mind in various scenerios:-

• Where We need to show right path to others ...Self equipped with the knowledge of right/wrong.Should be in Lawful state at that time and underline good manners at that time,don't come in rage.
• Where we need to save time.Free yourself from any waste /negativity .Fulfill responsibilities and teach others through your living example.
• Where we need to avoid entangling..Remember we just have different views and its ok.
• Someone getting dependent on you or you getting dependent on them ,remember neither we will influence or attract others in our qualities nor get impressed with others for their attainments or qualities.We need to follow our own journey. 

Thanks & Om Shanti,
Love & Light.
In Baba's yaad.

ब्रह्मचर्य आश्रम

इस आश्रम में व्यक्ति होश सम्भालने के बाद गुरु की सेवा में संयम व अनुशासन पूर्वक रहते हुए उचित एव योग्य हर प्रकार की विद्दाओ का अध्ययन करके अपने भावी जीवन में प्रवेश की उचित तैयारी करता था | इस प्रकार सभी सांसारिक प्रभावों से मुक्त और निर्लिप्त रहना ही ब्रह्मचर्य है |
जीवन का यह भाग सीखने और भविष्य की तैयारी का आधार माना जाता है इसमें इन्द्रीय –संयम ,
मन पर काबू रखना , व्यर्थ के माया – मोह, विषय-वासना और भोग-विलास से दूर रहने की शिक्षा पर अधिक बल दिया जाता था,इस अवस्था में दी गई शिक्षा के आधार पर शेष जीवन स्वत: ही अनुशासित रहता था | जीवन में नग्नता व अश्लीलता नही आ पाती थी |

आत्मनिर्भर व्यक्ति की पहचान

 दुख और सुख तो सभी पर पड़ते हैं इसलिए अपना पौरूष मत छोड़ों क्योंकि हार-जीत तो केवल मन के मानने अथवा न मानने पर ही निर्भर होती है।
स्वावलंबी मनुष्य सफलता या असफलता की परवाह किए बिना अनवरत प्रयासरत रहते हैं और बाधाओं, विघ्नों को चीरते हुए अपना मार्ग प्रशस्त करते जाते हैं।कंटाकाकीर्ण पथ पर दृढ़ता से आगे बढ़ते जाते हैं।
पथ के शूल उनके कदमों को रोक नहीं पाते और अंतत: सफलता उनका वरण करती है।

स्वावलम्बी या आत्मनिर्भर व्यकित ही सही अर्थो में जान पाता है कि संसार में दुःख पीड़ा क्या होते है तथा सुख- सुविधा का क्या मूल्य एव महत्त्व हुआ करता है |वह ही समझ सकता है कि मान अपमान किसे कहते है ? अपमान की पीड़ा क्या होती है ? परावलम्बी व्यक्ति को तो हमेशा मान-अपमान की चिन्ता त्याग कर , व्यक्ति होते हुए भी व्यक्तित्वहीन बनकर जीवन गुजार देना पड़ता है | एक स्वतंत्र व स्वावलम्बी व्यक्ति ही मुक्तभाव से सोच-विचार कर के उचित कदम उठा सकता है | उसके द्वारा किए गे परिश्रम से बहने वाले पसीने की प्रत्येक बूंद मोती के समान बहुमूल्य होती है | स्वावलम्बन हमारी जीवन – नौका की पतवार है | यह ही हमारा पथ – प्रदर्शन है | इस कारण से मानव – जीवन में इसकी अत्यन्त महत्ता है |

महानता की ओर

करूणा रक्षा में सहायक है – भगवान ने करूणा की भावना मनुष्य को इसलिए दी है ताकि यह  संसार बना रहे |
अगर कोई राक्षस किसी बेकसूर को मारे, या किसी की रोटी छीने तो यह करूणा आदमी को प्रेरणा देती है कि बेकसूर की रक्षा हो | न्याय की रक्षा करना धर्म है |

दयावान किसी को कष्ट में देखकर चुपचाप नहीं बैठ सकता | उनकी आत्मा उसे मज़बूर करती है कि दयावान दया करने से पहले अपना हानि-लाभ निश्चित करे |
यहाँ तक कि वह किसी के प्राण बचाकर भी उसके बदले उससे कुछ नहीं चाहता | दया निस्वार्थ ही होती है |

करुणा से महानता की ओर – संसार में जितने भी महान इन्सान हुए हैं, सबके जीवन में करूणा का अंग अवश्य रहा है | भगवान बुद्ध ने राजपाट छोड़कर दुखी लोगों के दुःख दूर करने में अपना जीवन लगा दिया | नानक ने संसारिकता त्यागकर ही महानता अर्जित की |
गाँधी जी ने अपनी वकालत त्यागकर देशवासियों के लिए कर्म किया, तभी सारे देश ने उन्हें अपना बापू माना | वास्तव में जब भी कोई व्यक्ति अपने स्वार्थ से ऊपर उठकर जनहित का आचरण करता है, वह हमारे लिए पूज्य बन जाता है |

मन के जीते जीत है ,मन के हारे हार

मन के दो पक्ष : आशा-निराशा – धुप-छाँव के समान मनव-मन के दो रूप हैं – आशा-निराशा | जब मन में शक्ति, तेज और उत्साह ठाठें मारता है तो आशा का जन्म होता है | इसी के बल पर मनुष्य हज़ारों विपतियों में भी हँसता-मुस्कराता रहता है |निराश मन वाला व्यक्ति सारे साधनों से युक्त होता हुआ भी युद्ध हार  बैठता है | पांडव जंगलों की धुल फाँकते हुए भी जीते और कौरव राजसी शक्ति के होते हुए भी हारे | अतः जीवन में विजयी होना है तो मन को शक्तिशाली बनाओ |

मन को विजय का अर्थ – मन की विजय का तात्पर्य है – काम, क्रोध, लोभ, मोह, अहंकार जैसे शत्रुओं पर विजय | जो व्यक्ति इनके वश में नहीं होता, बल्कि इन्हें वश में रखता है, वह पुरे विश्व पर शासन कर सकता है |
स्वामी शंकराचार्य लिखते हैं – “जिसने मन जो जीत लिया उसने जगत को जीत लिया |”
 मन पर विजय पाने का मार्ग – गीता में मन पर नियंत्रण करने के दो उपाय बाते गए हैं – अभ्यास और वैराग्य |
यदि व्यक्ति रोज़-रोज़ त्याग या मोह-मुक्ति का अभ्यास करता रहे तो उसके जीवन में असीम बल बल आ सकता है |
   
मानसिक विजय ही वास्तविक वियज – भारतवर्ष ने विश्व को अपने मानसिक बल से जीता है, सैन्य-बल से नहीं | यही सच्ची विजय भी है |भारत में आक्रमणकारी शताब्दियों तक लड़-जीत कर भी भारत को अपना न बना सके, क्योंकि उनके पास नैतिक बल नहीं था | शरीर-बल से हारा हुआ शत्रु फिर-फिर आक्रमण करने आता है, परंतु मानसिक बल से परास्त हुआ शत्रु स्वयं-इच्छा से चरणों में लोटता है |



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आध्यात्म द्वारा जीवन में समता

आध्यात्म द्वारा जीवन में समता

मनुष्य का स्वभाव है,कुछ न कुछ पकड़ने का अपनी पहचान बनाने का,अपने को उस गुड फीलिंग में रखने का।   ये मन की आदत है ,कोई न कोई चीज़ को पकड़ने का और उसको मैं और मेरे  के अंतर्गत ,लेने का
इससे वह सुरक्षित महसूस करता है। पर आध्यात्म हमे सिखाता है निश्चय बुद्धि बनो,मन के इस मानसिक खेल से छूटो(become No Mind ,conditioning से छूटो) ।  मन प्रयास करता है सब कुछ पा लू ,सब कुछ जान लू ,अपना प्रबंध कर लू ,सुरक्षित हो जाऊं। पर अध्यात्म कहता है सब कुछ पहले जान लेने से खेल का मज़ा ही ख़तम हो जाएगा। यह जीवन रियल नहीं रहेगा। जीवन में मिलने वाली शिक्षाएं, जीवन में गहरी नहीं समाऐंगी(Life is a school & we are all students) । जीवन में अचानक कुछ मिल जाए तो जो उसका मजा कुछ और ही होता है। उत्सुकता होती है, वह भी खत्म हो जाएगीी(Life is full of surprises & opportunities & we are here to enjoy every moment of life).साथ ही साथ हमारा यह जीवन सिर्फ हमारा नहीं बल्कि हम एक दूसरे पर निर्भर हैं सूक्ष्म रीति से, यह हमारे जीवन को संपूर्ण और सुंदर बनाता है।(Life is interconnected) जीवन में  मानवीय मूल्यों को जिंदा रखता है, जीवन में आशाओं को, उमंगो को, रौशनी  को, संगीत को जिंदा रखता है।(Life is a 🎶music & a Beautiful Dance 💃)हमारे संपूर्ण  समाज को समता में लाता है। धर्म में विभाजन, राजनीतिक में खिंचा तान, परिवारों में मतभेद, समाज और देश की जो वर्तमान दशा है उसका कारण यह भिन्नता ही तो है, अमीर और अमीर होता जा रहा है, गरीब और गरीब हो रहा है , एक तरफ साक्षरता इतनी बढ़ गई है देश/विश्व तकनीको की ऊंचाइयों को छू रहा है, और दूसरी ओर किसी को प्राथमिक शिक्षा भी नहीं मिल रहीं, एक और लोग धर्म के नाम पर   इतने बड़े बड़े संस्था चला रहे है। दूसरी ओर धर्म का मूल ही आम आदमी भूला हुआ है। एक और किसी मनुष्य के पास इतनी ताकत है ,सत्ता है जो अनेकों को प्रभावित कर सकता है। दूसरी ओर  आम जनता को उसके नैतिक  अधिकार भी सहज प्राप्त नहीं है । एक  ओर परिवार का एक सदस्य सभी जिम्मेदारियों को उठाकर भी, दिन-रात अपनी नींद चैन का त्याग कर भी मेहनत में लगा हुआ है और दूसरी ओर अन्य सदस्य संगदोष के कारण अपने  लापरवाह व्यवहार द्वारा बड़ों का आदर सम्मान रखना भी भूलते जा रहे हैं। ऐसी अनेक असमानताओं और भिन्नतायों को अध्यात्म द्वारा संयमित किया जा सकता है।

अध्यात्म के माध्यम से जीवन को संतुलित और संयमित किया जा सकता है। विचारों को महान किया जा सकता है। जीवन  में प्रगति का मार्ग प्रशस्त किया जा सकता है। एक स्थाई, शाश्वत, सुखद जीवन की कल्पना की जा सकती है। भाईचारे और बंधुत्व भाव को बढ़ाया जा सकता है। एक धर्म, एक राज्य, एक कुल की स्थापना की जा सकती है। जो कि निि:संदेह स्वर्णिम भारत ही होगा, जिसकी कल्पना सभी महापुरुषों ने की, परमात्म शक्ति और आत्मिक शक्ति के द्वारा वह समय अब दूर नहीं  जब हर मन में श्रेष्ठ विचार होंगे, सद् विचार होंगे, सभी श्रेष्ठ कर्म धारी, पुण्य आत्मा और पवित्र आत्मा बन जाएंगे और हमारा विश्व एक सुंदर स्वर्ग बन जाएगा।और यह सब संभव होने का एकमात्र उपाय है मन को आध्यात्म के माध्यम  के द्वारा सही शििक्षा देना ,उसे ऊंचे  विचारों में उठाना और योग/ध्यान के माध्यम से उसे सशक्त बनाना. 

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