Qualities of a mother that keeps her in winning position

See a mother who is dedicated towards caring and sustaining a child.Her all Happiness,her all love,her all strength goes towards upbringing a child,giving him everything best..diet,health,education,friends,even the life partner when the child grows up enough.You can imagine what are the feelings of a mother when she sees her child doing good in his study,clearing  job interviews,settled with everything best in Life.We just have to look into her eyes..those sparkling eyes says it all ,you have to see how her world is complete and full  when his child is complete.There is nothing else that she needs other than his child's success and happiness.A mother really has a Big heart...she is merciful,she is kind,she is compassionate,She is gentel yet the most powerful.She is the first teacher,she is the caretaker,she is the guide,she is the sustainer,she is the guru even who disciplines the child when he is mischievious. Her tolerance and paitence are her greatest tools.Her unadultered love makes the child learn the lesson and bring in transformation and become a man of value.The qualities that a mother/women possess is really endless.She is the creator and the sustainer and even the destroyer of all evil.Women is half man in her self,but a man can never be a woman in every sense.Greatness and limitlessness is something that she possess in large amounts which practically has no match if we compare the same with male counterparts.A woman is complete even without a man.But a man never is.By saying this,we are not being gender biased but simply quoting the fact,as if not all relations,atleast a man would need a mother for emotional support on the contrary a woman is already fulfilled enough with all the motherly qualities as well as the male qualities of  determination and discipline 

Purpose of life

The purpose of living is
To fulfill our dreams.
To express our uniqueness
To experience Living values.
To grow and evolve.
and the most importantly coming close to God.
There have been times in the soul journey when it experienced abundance and fulfillment  both internally and externally.That was our golden time.when soul had all its treasure stores full.
Relationships perfect...unconditional,selfless, loving, it's foundation being grounded on trust and whole essence of relationships was to give happiness ,thus freedom was experienced naturally and there was no bondage.
(no insecurity,no lack of trust ,no possesiveness, no selflishness or any kind of business transactions)
A freedom is something that every soul longs for,any kind of physical or mental prison subdues a soul's capability to express itself whether on relationship front or on work front.The unlimited potential that the soul carries within itself comes out best when it is set free.It is important to understand that It is Love in any relation that frees the soul and makes it capable.
A capable soul is able to think and do things creatively which only is the secret for fulfillment and experiencing richness.Thinking different,Thinking New,Thinking Big.Thinking innovative.Thinking out of box is then possible.
We,the souls are here to express and experience life in its full spectrum.
Its the journey of  life ,where we,the living stars experience every feeling,where we taste sweetness of life.
Life is indeed beautiful if we have that third eye to look at it in a very non judgemental & non critical way.
Just look at relationships
father-son
mother-daughter
mother-son
father-daughter
brother-sister
husband-wife
friends
Teacher-student
Guru-disciple
Every relation has a different kind of attainment, uniqueness, Beauty,Royalty & regulation too.
They all are mutually exclusive and no one relation can replace the other ones.Each one has its own beauty and sweetness.In order for the soul to feel complete and grow ,it needs the sweetness and love of all relations.We,the human beings are actually the beings of love and wisdom & knowledge is something which we all carry without exception.Some have knowledge of house keeping,some may have knowledge of shopping and making good wise decisions on budgeting things,others may have good sense on comparing things,finding plus/ minus of things and choosing the best deal,some may be good at making friends.. Each quality is of best use when accompanied with divinity which comes through spiritual knowledge & connection with ocean of love & purity, our Beloved Almighty supreme father. This actually is the only purpose of our lives, to live higher, to live in peace & love(purity) with self & others. 

Love & Light,
A living ⭐star.

Golden age is not far:Beauty & Love all around

Change attitude,
Become beneficial for others,& you become valuable. All good things in life. Free. Start fulfilling others and you fulfill yourself. Value health, value loved ones, value character and you increase your treasures. Help others and you becoming worthy of all the blessings. Embrace life, deepen living. Become available. Give attention and manifest a new reality. Add beauty, add fragnance to living & just enjoy being...still & tranquil.Practise compassion, do an act of kindness, care, share,smile. Donate little,feel abundance, fortunate. Give life and live long. Touch lives and rule hearts.Give rights and Get cooperation. Love unconditionally  and swing in joy, bliss and peace. Give regard and wear the crown 👑 of carefree emperor. Give  flowers 🌸🌺🌻🌹🌷🌼💐of virtues and  keep sitting in garden of Allah. Flow the unadulterated love of God to all and remain filled with his platonic pure sacred love. Shine upon like light in everyone's life & remain full with God's light in every step.Decorate self with the ornaments/jewels of knowledge & keep on radiating your inner beauty.Enrich your life with godly versions, and feel abundance & fortune. Sitting in the garden, river of love flowing, birds 🐦twittering, you wearing a crown,a book in hand enjoying the beauty of 🌿🍃nature, fresh air around, clouds passing  by,  raindroplets on flowers and you singing your songs,sometimes of peace, sometimes of love & sometimes of bliss. Aha.....A feeling of aha..!!

Love & Light,
A diva.

Knowing Who's who... An easy way to Rise above mistakes & become Complete.

Brahmin life.. Devi fasilat, adab, regard for those above you. A Learning experience to become a deity.This only the
Purification process.(yagya ki prakriya hi shudhdhi karan ka marg hai, it's a sahej yoga, pravriti marg).Always Giving answers not important,avoid buddhi ka ahankaar.No saamna Its the path of love(mohabatt),winning hearts.you are under cctv 24*7.Jhukna,sunna, right gestures, right words(gyanyukt, yogyukt) , right intentions, right attitude, reality, royalty very important to increase divinity(divyata),ruhaniyat within.,as it finishes "rob "and makes you sweet. Opens blockages, cures ailments, harmonious relationships, purpose of living achieved.
Tyag tapasya, sewa...madhurta.. Guno ka tap.Becoming madhur bhashi, becoming a real deity calls for not even a slightest rejection to any situation. Winning over the situation calls for good feelings and good wishes, a very deep understanding of karmic accounts and a clear mirror to see self.
Someone Uplifting you.. Giving you equal status, chance. Up to you now how you cash the opportunity.. Win hearts or give people reason to put you in scrap section. Become samaan sathi, samaanta se Milan mannane wale ya door se darshan karne wale. Someone giving you privilege to be of their kul. Samaan sathi.Valuing that status takes you to heights.

A very deep secret worth knowing :-

Those who are yagya sewadharis.. Vishwasewadharis..Gets few lifetime godly rights, authority based on their strong base life's dharna. They may be walking, talking, doing things ordinarily but status difference is always there.They have got some special sidhdhis, some special vardaans that's why No one has the power to challenge or can afford to copy them. What is given to them as  a right may not be a right for others .Coz it is him (Baba)who knows the journey, services, purity level and accordingly decides everyone's parts/status.of present time. Copying or comparing with someone may put one in extreme difficulties. So, It is the task of one's wisdom and broad intellect to judge  who is higher than us and come in connection accordingly and free self from making blunders. (Mistakes made in ignorance of who the other person is ,to whom you are talking.).your act goes to positive negative or neutral account based on your intention plus based on the other person's role & situation.So, along with knowing your role & power, it is equally important to know the other person's role, power & occupation. Then it's Very easy way to become free from waste account and avail an opportunity to easy learning on making self complete.
It really is a wise decision to leave your little egos  in terms of your choices,preferences & comforts and engage self in unlimited services. To decide whether it is self respect or ego is a task of a very pure intellect. A helpful filter/check for same.. Check if any of your decision is just for saving & benefiting self or is it bringing some benefit to others at large. Say someone offering you some help, you don't accept it saying I prefer doing things on my own can be called as being adamant when there is no good reason behind not accepting the help. You could save your time and put it in service and bring benefit to many through your skills, knowledge, stage etc and further increase your self respect and become valuable. So, at every step of life ,when we challenge and leave our egoes we start becoming full of self respect and a valuable jewel. Lieing to self and saving the ego and making your self comfortable in small little cookons is the job of the one who is lazy,coward and prefer to stay blind to the truth. Still, Sangamyug is an age of self realisation and transformation if one really has courage to do so, father is always there to help and take us across.

Love, Light & good wishes for all

Shakti avtaar😎

chose company wisely

Stay away from negative people, they have a problem for every solution. You should always limit your time with people that continually drain your energy and add no value to your life. Negative people are usually very committed, to being negative, and the more you push them to be anything else, the more they will push back. This doesn’t mean you show no compassion towards others. Live with compassion. Live with empathy. Do all that as a standard practice of being a decent human being, but keep your life free from the drama and negativity that is not who you are.

If your attempts to lift someone out of negativity are unsuccessful, you have to move on. They will get to a better place when they’re ready to get to a better place and no one will get there if they’re not ready, whether they are pushed or not.

The people in your life should be reducing your stress, not causing more of it. If you consider yourself to be a positive person and want to live your best life, surround yourself with positive people. Surround yourself with people that make you feel good about being yourself. Surround yourself with people that see the good in the world. By doing so, you will see more good too. You will attract more good. Don’t let them drain your energy. Energy doesn’t discriminate. Just like weight lifting, If you focus on getting one body part stronger, and you put all your energy, focus and effort on that muscle group, working on it every day, that muscle will get stronger. If you put all your energy into negative people, your life will be negative.

If your attention is on what's wrong with your life, If your attention and energy is on the negative people and the negativity they bring, that will invade your life. Keep your focus on what is good and you will see more good. More good will grow just like a muscle. The same is true on the opposite side. If you lie down with negativity, you will be consumed with negativity. You are what you eat and you are who you spend your time with by choice. What you consume will consume you. Your friends and peer group are a great reflection of you because you chose them. Choose wisely.

Don’t chase people. Be Yourself. Do your own thing and work hard. The right people, the ones who really belong in your life will come to you and stay. 🌷🌈

winning love of shiva

Shivaratri ~ Union of ShankarParvati! The divine union which takes place when Shiva comes to meet Shakti represents enlightenment in absolute darkness! ShivaShakti, the Union of heart and mind. The two who are one, ShankarParvati, the soul and energy in the working. The soul is the consciousness, The mind is the matter. Shiva, the soul and Parvati, the mind. Sati loved Shiva to the core and being his wife became her motto. She left the pampered life of the family palace and retired to the forest to worship Shiva. She worshipped him day and night with her rigorous penance.

Although Daksha called Shiva uncivilised, a destroyer of all things respected in culture, Sati married Shiva anyway. 
But after Sati immolated herself in fire Shiva isolated himself amongst the snow covered peak of Kailasha. He rejected the world outside as so distraught was he after the loss of his first true love. Immersed in mediation, he performed great tapas that produced heat and energy. His mind was filled with great knowledge, and his body became resplendent with energy but all this energy and knowledge bottled within his being was of no use to anyone. "I will coil myself around Shiva, wean out his energy and knowledge for the good of the world and make him father a child," said Shakti!

Shakti took birth as Parvati. The first word that Parvati uttered was SHIVA. She was determined to draw Shiva out of his cave and make him her consort. "this unshakable heart knows no other feeling than love. Those whose goals are set don't care about criticism." It was after a lot of penance that Parvati won the love of Shiva and married him. Parvati is referred to as the symbol of love and devotion. She is also referred as as the embodiment of devotion in a marriage and is known to have reduced the anger of Shiva immensely through her affection. Their love is honest and equal. It balances male and female, spirit and matter! Shiva is able to function when united with Shakti, otherwise he is inert.!! 

thankyou god for Life

The world is not all sunshine and rainbows! But a good amount of it actually is. It’s not always a very happy, care-free life where you have just about everything you want.

In the larger spectrum of life, yes, you will go through things you couldn’t imagine. There will be days where you absolutely want to just scream into a pillow and maybe sleep all day. But there will be more days when you absolutely fall in love with being alive. Your favorite song will come on the radio and you’ll have an iced coffee in your hand and your best friend next to you singing along, and you will realize life is SO good. What a privilege it is to be alive, to breathe, to think, to feel, to enjoy, to experience love. Each moment is a gift. Enjoy it, because we do not know what the future will bring.

Even though life can be very hard sometimes, but that’s okay because life is amazing! No one has a perfect life, but happy positive people focus on the good rather than dwell on the negative. Know that life is really a reflection of our thoughts; our thinking becomes our emotions, and our emotions become our character. Focus on the good. Concentrate on the positive. We are so blessed and even though there will be thunderstorms in your life, there will be way more rainbows and butterflies and flowers in your life and the good will absolutely outweigh the bad. So Stay positive and be thankful to God for the gift of life. ! 

Beautiful explanation of 3 types of karmas

KARMA & SURRENDER !

To attain freedom from the bondage of illusion (maya) and the cycle of birth an death, it is necessary to purify the mind stuff (chitta). It is advised to perform all karma for God, to give up and offer everything, mind intellect wealth time, to God, is the secret of Love.

1- Sanchita Karma is the sum total of past accumulated karmas. One lifetime is most often not enough to experience all the Sanchita Karma, and hence the soul reincarnates, or continues to come back to earth. However, it is possible for one to gain control and exhaust Sanchita Karma by clearing one’s karmic debt.

2- Prarabdha Karma is that subset of the Sanchita Karma that is ripe and ready to be experienced in this lifetime. Prarabdha means something that has already started. It cannot be removed or controlled. It can only be experienced, there is no other way around it.

3- Agami Karma is the karma that is being created and accumulated in the present to be experienced in the future.

When karma is performed with dedication and surrender, the basis being love for God, the result is detachment and renunciation of the fruits of karma. As there is no attachment, there is no accumulation of impressions, and previous accumulations do not gain any strength and fructify as destiny. Thus existing prarabdha is exhausted after bearing its fruit. In this way actions done with a sense of surrender and dedication help purify chitta and put a brake on the wheel of karma. 

keep the confidence,drop mistrust

When you are tempted to give up waiting on Shiva's timing, remember why you have held on for so long. His plans are always best. Keep holding on. Everything that Shiva allows to come your way is always with a purpose. He uses even the greatest error and deepest pain to mold us into a better person. A gem cannot be polished without friction, nor a man perfected without trials. Just like gemstones are polished by grinding and cutting, similarly, we are perfected through the learning process, obstacles, difficulties, and trials. Our life becomes better, Not bitter, with hard experiences. Every Experience is a teacher. Learn from it. During hard times you may not know where you are heading. Have patience. When you feel like giving up, Always look back at how far you have come rather than how far you have to go. If you have made it till here, you sure will make it in the future as well. Have faith. Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear. Keep the faith and drop the fear. Always trust HIM, no matter how low you are brought, how bad things may get. Shiva is with you. Difficult times are brought to us for our good. Look at the difficult times in your past and notice that good has come from every one of them. So Trust that you will be okay no matter what happens. Shiva hears your prayers and He WILL help you through it. When you can't put your prayers into words, HE hears your heart!! Love light & Peace 🌷👁🕉📿💀🐍🗿🌲🌙🌺🌿🔆🌀🐚🔱🌳⌛️🔔🌈🙏🏻✨

shiv tatva

Sage Vyasa, the author of mahabharata, mentions that Lord Shiva is smaller than the sub-atomic particle like Proton, Neutron and Electron. At the same time, he also mentions Lord Shiva is greater than anything greatest. He is the cause of vitality in all living things. Everything, whether living or non-living, originates from Shiva. He has engulfed the whole world. He is Timeless. He has no birth, no death. He is invisible, unmanifest. He is the Soul of the Soul. He has no emotion, sentiment or passion at all. There is a mysterious or indescribable power in Shiva to induce concentration of the mind and helps focus one’s attention.

Lord Shiva is beautifully explained in a verse by Adi Shankaracharya also.

Adyantahinam - One without a beginning or end. Sarvada - He is the Bholenath (innocent ruler of all) who is present everywhere all the time. We think Shiva is somewhere else sitting with a snake around his neck. Shiva is one in whom everything has taken birth, who encompasses everything right this moment, and in whom everything in creation dissolves. Every form you see in this creation is all his form.

He permeates the entire creation. He is never born and has no end. He is eternal. He is the fourth state of consciousness, the turiya avasta, the meditative state, that is beyond the waking, deep sleep and dream states. He is the non-dual consciousness that is present everywhere. That’s why to do Shiva puja, you have to dissolve in Shiva yourself. Being Shiva, you do Shiva puja.

Chidananda rupa - He is the consciousness that is pure bliss.

Tapo yoga gamya - One who can be known through tapa and yoga. The Shiva tattva can be experienced in the knowledge of the Vedas. The state of Shivoham (I am Shiva), Shiva kevaloham (there is only Shiva) is attained. Shivratri is the day to experience a wave of joy and contentment. Without yoga, Shiva can’t be experienced. Yoga doesn’t mean only asanas (physical postures) but that experience of Shiva tattva which happens with meditation, pranayam: when that ‘WOW’ happens from within.! 🌷📿🕉👁🔱🐍💀

coming out of karmic bondage

  coming  out  of karmic bondage

The karma you are experiencing now is Prarabdha Karma. It is like an arrow that has been shot from the bow – no force can stop it from hitting its target. This karma has started bearing fruit. You have to experience this or “taste” the fruits of your past actions. If the karma is positive, it is called good karma and the fruit will be sweet and tasty. If the karma is negative, it is called bad karma and the fruit will be bitter or even toxic. With the exception of Divine Grace altering our paths, we cannot avoid the experience of our own karma. However, there are ways in which we can handle it better.

1- Accept responsibility.

The first step towards healing yourself from bad karma is to take full and absolute responsibility for where you are in life. Yes, life may seem unfair at times, it may appear that forces beyond your control are dictating your life and that you are helpless in face of everything around you. Yet, despite this, you and only you are responsible for your life and your karma; not anyone or anything outside of you is responsible for it. Even if you do not understand the ways of the Universe, place your trust that it is doing the right thing. Acceptance alone sets into motion the healing process and puts you in a better position to deal with your karma. As you progress on the spiritual path towards Self-realization, you will recognize your ability to influence your own life events.

2- Know that you do not need to resign to your karma.

Everything in your life is in accordance with the law of karma. Every action of the past has already created a result in the form of karma, and it is unfolding in your life right now. But even though the consequences have already been pre-determined in accordance with the causes, it does not mean that your life is pre-determined. Self-effort in dealing with karma plays a critical role in shaping your life. You can deal with the karmic cards you are dealt with more gracefully and even turn your apparent bad karma to your advantage.

3- Stop accumulating new (negative) karma.

If you find yourself in a deep hole which you want to get out of, you need to stop digging the hole deeper. As long as you are existing in the day-to-day realities of modern life, you cannot avoid performing actions. And your actions will have karmic consequences. Then, how is it possible for you to not accrue any further karma, good or bad? The only way you can do it is by detaching yourself from the desire for the action, from the action, and from the outcome or results of the action. Offer the deed that you do to the Supreme Lord, to the Universe, to your higher Self. Do what you need to, but don’t identify yourself as the doer, and with the doership. By consistently detaching yourself from your actions and their outcomes, you are setting yourself free from any further karma.

4- Strike at the root cause of bad karma.

If you can take full responsibility for your karma, you will also realize that you are the creator of your own karma. The bad karma you may be experiencing has its roots deep inside of you, in your past conduct. These are the obstacles or enemies residing within you, that are creating negative karmas. If you can acknowledge this, you are already on your way to deal with negative karma. By willful intentions and actions, you can destroy your inner enemies.

5- Eliminate situations and relationships that sustain negative cycles.


As you go about your life, you may find yourself in situations or relationships that are negative and cyclical. These cycles must be broken or they will continue to contribute to your life negatively. You may have hesitated to walk away from such situations or relationships because either you did not recognize them as such or you feel obligated to not walk away. Unemotionally and peacefully evaluate what is working for you and what is not, and after attempting to resolve the situation, you may need to walk away from what is not serving you. You need not have a conflict in your heart about this. Only when you are able to serve your Self can you help others, so take care of your Self.

6- Seek forgiveness and forgive others.

Do you carry ill-will or anger towards anyone? Is that anger because you feel the other person has wronged you? As long as you harbor negative feelings towards anyone or anything, you continue to attract negative karma and energies in an endless loop. To break this cycle you must let go of your own anger and hatred, you will find yourself more at peace within yourself.

Sometimes, you may find that you hold anger towards yourself. It is even more important to be kind towards yourself, and forgive yourself, and treat yourself with love.

It is also possible that you may have wronged others knowingly or unknowingly in this lifetime or past ones. In your heart, seek forgiveness from those people and their souls. Sincerely and heartfully ask for forgiveness. By seeking forgiveness and forgiving, you are cutting off the karmic shackles and freeing yourself from the bonds that tie you to the cycle of life and rebirth.

Maintain a positive attitude towards everything and everyone in your life. Do good and be good to yourself and others.

Rising above mistakes

Rising above mistakes

Surrender to God ; Dear Shiva, whatever conditions confront me, I know that they represent the next step in my unfoldment. I will welcome all tests because I know that within me is the intelligence to understand and the power to overcome. 🙏🏻📿🙏🏻 Namaste Beautiful Souls.  . 🕉🌀🕉 Failures can be a learning mechanism, and it can also be a success. We are going to fail, we are going to lose, and we are going to make mistakes. It's not a bad thing, we all do that. But the bad thing is not recognising our mistakes and failures, because if you don't recognise you can't learn from them. Admit it, deal with it, learn from it and ultimately succeed from it. It’s your choice. To be positive and free or to be imprisoned by your own negativity. To live in the past or to be hopeful about the present. Don't let the self doubt overcome you. It chips away at your ego and causes you to doubt your abilities, and your self worth. Don't let this negativity overtake you and ask "Am I good enough? Am I worthy?” This self-doubt never helps, and is really just an additional setback compounded on top of the setback your already facing.

It's unfortunate that sometimes things don’t work out, what’s even worse is being stuck in a victim mentality that prevents us from moving forward. Allow yourself to feel the pain, so you can grow beyond it. There's no reason to be ashamed for not expressing the pain. It's sign of human strength. And it's absolutely ok, everyone goes through this kind of phase. Accept the reality and detach from fantasies. To fight against the past will merely waste your time and energy. To wish that things were different gets you nowhere. Remind yourself that it's temporary. After every sunset there's a sunrise. Just as it appears that the sun is going down on you, realise that this a momentary perspective. Things are not over, they are just bleak. These are the opportunities to evolve your perspective and spirit. There's no dead ends in this universe. It is a universe of eternal growth, expansion and unlimitedness. The situation you experience provided you contrast. You will blossom again. That ability never goes away. Your sense of godliness and power always exists. You didn't come into this life to give up that power, its inherent and part of you. You have all the ability within you. It's about your allowing of it. You don't have to create it, it already exist. Allow the shining of your light that you were born to shine.!! Love, light and Peace

Love you zindagi!!:)

thanks to all situations,competetors who amased me,made me strong...(unaffected).
There are some who gets awakened when they see you moving ahead.It simply means they don't have life of their
own and their inner motivation is less.Its great to see them moving ahead,but their seeing you as a competetor
is not that good cos now the energy exchange is not of friends- caring and sharing.They hide themseleves.Hope
to get those beautiful relations back."Me still being as friendly as before" is my victory.My dear friends,in life
there is no competetion,no race...we are here to win friends,win hearts and not win egoes.Seeing this harsh reality
of human life sometimes amases me but now have become strong enough to accept it.



thanks to all who helped me when in dispair and left me when on top.(should have continued being the same
as your human value of loving all humanity)

thanks to all who made me understand the value of my work...value of my position,my qualities,my efforts
and my overall worth as a great human being.You are able to know yourself when there are storms in life.you are able to
know subtle attitudes you carry towards life and other fellow beings.Also you are able to know your complete
inherent personality and your highest principles which otherwise won't have come up.You need real life situations
to know your real self.you become smarter enough to cope up and deal with situations where there is
quality work,principles uncompromised,relations unaffected.You have to work sharply on your thoughts,speech and actions.

life is a learning experience,there is no loss.the one who maintains courage knows how to live life.
calculating loss and gain wastes precious time of human life.

Breath,Relax,Go easy

Breath,Relax,Go easy

We all have busy life, have things to do and places to go. But life gets crazy and we don't have time to alleviate stress. We don't have time for meditation and weekend vacations. A few mindset shifts and a couple actions that take only a few minutes can solve the most severe stress related problems. Yes, Slow down. Breathe. Review your commitments and goals. Be in the moment and let go all that you can't control. Unnecessary Fears cause you to be stressed, not external factors. Those external factors are just a part of life, but they become stressful when you have fear in your mind about several things. Your fears are based on some notions in your head about how things are supposed to be. These fantasies are a way to feel in control of a world that you don’t actually control, but they’re hurting you by causing fear and stress. Let go of control. Feel good with chaos and uncertainty, and trust that things will work out. Trust Shiva! Trust Shakti! Accept everything as it is and smile. Try accepting people for who they are and recognise that, like you, they’re imperfect and seeking happiness and struggling with finding it. Change your thoughts, Behind every stressful feeling is an untrue thought. Clear your mind of all such thoughts and you change your world. Go ahead and do this right now to experience a whole new different world! Love, light & Peace

This is what I need

At a certain moment in Our life, the idea came to us of what we call 'the love of your fate.' Whatever your fate is, whatever the heck happens, you say, "This is what I need." It may look like a wreck, but go at it as though it were an opportunity, a challenge.

If you bring love to that moment - not discouragement - you will find the strength is there. Any disaster that you can survive is an improvement in your character, your stature, and your life. What a privilege! This is when the spontaneity of your own nature will have a chance to flow. Then, when looking back at your life, you will see that the moments which seemed to be great failures followed by wreckage were the incidents that shaped the life you have now. You'll see that this is really true.

Nothing can happen to you that is not positive. Even though it looks and feels at the moment like a negative crisis, it is not.

contentment.here and now

An article from community Shiva Tribe. 

Most of our troubles are due to our passionate desire for and attachment to things that we misapprehend as enduring entities. We pin our happiness to people, circumstances, and things and hold onto them for dear life. We stress about the possibility of losing them when something seems amiss. Then we melt into grief when something changes ; a lay off, a breakup, or a transfer. In trying to hold on to what’s familiar, we limit our ability to experience joy in the present. A moment can’t possibly radiate fully when you’re suffocating it in fear.

When you stop trying to grasp, own, and control the world around you, you give it the freedom to fulfill you without the power to destroy you. That’s why letting go is so important ; letting go is letting happiness in.

Stop running after people or things. Let go off the desire for everything you don’t have. No, you won’t always get exactly what you want, but remember this: There are lots of people who will never have what you have right now. The things you take for granted, someone else is praying for. Happiness never comes to those who don’t appreciate what they already have. So stop complaining , stop comparing yourself to everyone else. Social comparison is the thief of happiness. You could spend a lifetime worrying about what others have, but it wouldn’t get you anything.

Accept the moment for what it is. Don’t try to turn it into yesterday; that moment’s gone. Don’t plot about how you can make the moment last forever. Just seep into the moment and enjoy it, because it will eventually pass. Nothing is permanent. Fighting that reality will only cause you pain. Believe now is enough. It’s true ; tomorrow may not look the same as today, no matter how much you try to control it. A relationship might end. You might have to move. You’ll deal with those moments when they come. All you need right now is to appreciate and enjoy what you have. It’s enough.!

Ocean of knowledge in our Urn(ज्ञान सागर से ज्ञान स्वरुप तक )

Understanding Whole Knowledge in Summary:-

• Variety Drama
  
  Souls have different Roles and occupations(different interests and jobs depending upon that)finishes overestimations and underestimation tendencies.

• Laws of nature

1. Teaching limitations and blessings of different times of the day,Good time for learning,remembering and doing things,
2. Understanding Brain,Heart  & other bodily functions. kidney's role in toxin removal,liver's role bloodflow mechanism's relation to different kinds of feelings we create during the day.Cosmos Relation to our bodies. How planetory movements/stars affect healthy functioning of body based on the feelings we create.We change the feelings/attitude,body becomes healthy,planets/stars comes in our favour.

• Laws of Govt.
  
  Same for all,Leave critisicm or blaming attitude.Serve your creation ,Spread vibrations,empower  your creation. 

• Body
  
  Timely rest,excercise and nutrious food.

• Life
  
  Sufficient Wealth,,facilities,goodwill & success in your Endeavours.

Path of devotion is entirely different,there you sing God's praise,perform
rituals(कर्म काण्ड),perform charity(दान पुण्य ) but don't get the Knowledge:-

• Knowledge of Karma,which Karmas are positive,negative or neutral(कर्म अकर्म विकर्म का ज्ञान )
• Knowledge of Power of Mind(inner powers,unlimited potential of mind )
• Knowledge of Past Births(divine being,deity as first birth in the beginning of world cycle)
• Knowledge of Human Psychology(definitions of right/wrong through different perspectives)
• Knowledge of Neutralizing Sins(negative karmas)by doing antidote karmas with the same souls with whom there is account and letting go of any past burdens.
• Knowledge of God(What karmas are dear to God ,what makes us come closer to him Selfless,Heartful karmas,How He Listens to our silent prayers and How he silently helps us in life's situations and help us rise beyond our limitations.

Purpose and investments for life

1)Progress & Happiness--just for self or for all?

2)Seeing Relationships through different angles.

• Valuable,asset[love,care,support],
• quality time & energy[What I give,comes back],
• Feel responsible and empathetic with them[Only you can fulfill their needs,you are irreplaceable in their life,Its your part].

3)Our conducts while we being on journey of life :

• Where is our focus(qualities or lables or profit/loss),
• Gratefulness for life and its opportunities to be alive (to play,laugh,love,smile,care,give)  or Competetive/Ambitious attitude(me & mine,racing attitude)

Things to Keep in mind in various scenerios:-

• Where We need to show right path to others ...Self equipped with the knowledge of right/wrong.Should be in Lawful state at that time and underline good manners at that time,don't come in rage.
• Where we need to save time.Free yourself from any waste /negativity .Fulfill responsibilities and teach others through your living example.
• Where we need to avoid entangling..Remember we just have different views and its ok.
• Someone getting dependent on you or you getting dependent on them ,remember neither we will influence or attract others in our qualities nor get impressed with others for their attainments or qualities.We need to follow our own journey. 

Thanks & Om Shanti,
Love & Light.
In Baba's yaad.