From the very young age we start scolding children for their little mistakes।
We dictate them right and wrong straightway,
We don't tell them the reason why।We don't spend time with them listening to their hearts and fill it with love।
Infact mistakes and their correction need love not scolding ।
We can teach them the right ways by doing things ourselves,setting an example and inspiring them to do right।
We can even tell them motivational stories।
We don't remain patient while listening to their small little happinesses and achievements of life
We become their judge if they share their untold secrets and even weaknesses।We start seeing them with that small vision ।
We don't appreciate their courage and honest sharing rather we create a disgust and insult for them।
We often compare them with their friends and siblings and further make them feel low in their self esteem।
We often victimize them when we see them doing things which is often termed as morally incorrect which their friends or others around may be doing say parting,going for movies,making friends in opposite gender।
Parents have a very big responsibility for their child and need to grow in their mind set in sustaining their child as it is the time when their personality is shaping for lifetime।