Elder means humble,
Elder means caring,
Elder means knowledge ful,
Elder means responsible.
Elder means wise.
Elder means equality (samdrishti). .
Elder means selfless.
Elder means fearless.
Elder means acceptance.
Elder means merciful.
Elder means lawful.
Elder means balanced.
Lawful
Improving character of a loved one by giving small little punishments eg not talking for somewhile.
Not giving them their things easily & let them understand the value & hard work that is put/invested behind anything.
Earn before you spend.
Giving a task in their planned schedule (small responsibility to create a sanskaar of obedience, sacrifice & trust in Baba, family, drama & good deeds)
My own motives, enjoyment, desires, ideas, respect, security all on one side
Elder....Got this position, to serve .
Seeing weaknesses & unfulfillment & making effort to fulfill them.
Palanhaar, maat pita.
Equality & acceptance in seeing two souls with different qualities & capabilities. Acknowledge the qualities of introvert ness, kindness, love, accuracy, honesty in one child if he is lacking other outgoing qualities of singing/dancing/playing/speaking.Not comparing & degrading one in front of other. (Marks, outer talents)
Selfless & unconditional
Not counting on time & attainments that she is going to get in return.
Giving unconditionally & wholeheartedly
to all & forever (sabhi ko aur sada)
A Mother doesn't see her comfort before his child.. Remains awake even at night to care for child if he is sick. Uplift a child, educates a child if he is not very good at his even the normal daily routine tasks.
Boosts his confidence & self respect if he compares with his fellow friends & relatives. & motivates him to do enough hard work in life to excel in life.
Enjoying & celebrating with him every little success. A feeling of euphoria , on top of the world. Dancing in joy.
