Is Leaving attachments,forgetting conflicts easy?

  

Om Shanti Divine souls,

Let's  contemplate on a very crucial topic that we all face in one or the form in our spiritual life,

Is Leaving bondage easy? Forgetting conflicts easy? 

He says forget ,let it go from holding here in mind. Come out of your mental prison, I give you new place,new people, new job, new world to live in & rule. New has fun, old has no fun. I want to transfer you to everything new then why are you still in love with the old.Why you are holding  yourself back, why you are not setting your wings free. Why are you allowing situations to bind You in its clutches. Remember,it is you only who has the power to set yourself free from your mental prison. No one else can do it for you. Situations & people can neither bind you nor release you,It's you only who has the power to come out of it. You are unlimited children of unlimited father & standing on an unlimited stage of world. You are Master of your destiny (you can attract whatever you want in your life). You are Masters of nature. Just make yourself worthy of what you desire in life & accumulate power of yoga & Enjoy being Master of your inner world

Affirmations to get ready & get going

 

Affirmations to get ready & get going.

(Swamaan,sammaan,everready,get going & learning attitude ,Dehi abhimani)

Wow...I can do it..let's do it…

Baba is there..elders have done it..now it's our turn..we can do it.

Thankyou for giving me chance, thankyou for guiding me.

Together we can & together we will..yes@@

Ready to learn,please tell me...please give me chance. 

Wow our new world is coming..Everyone changing,everyone cooperative,everyone contributing.Heaven is here.

Education,skill,work all with power of Spirituality.

Relations ...Loving & detached.

Work ….Willing ,& detached.

Right Form of Conversation

 

AFFIRMATIONS(INNER TALKS)SCENERIOS WHERE WE NEED To UNDERSTAND ,APPRECIATE

GIVE REGARD,SATISFY & CONVINCE OTHER SOUL.

Let's  understand first

Whether me Elder or younger..both case learning is there,responsibility is there,No escape is there from

Responsibility. BEING Responsible is an attitude which has no connection with being Elder or Younger.

Controlling,ordering,scolding certainly are not an option.

Only Caring,Sharing...understanding, helping are the available options we have.

Understanding & helping in secret is a good way,not making others realise you are weak or you don't have this quality /power(Not lowering anyone's self esteem)

Pity ….BIG NO.our aim is to make others realise their inner powers,empower them .

Rather say,,,.we love you ,we care for you.

don't worry,be easy,everything is good.

..We have everything...God is with us.

You deserve..you are powerful...you are a lucky soul.you can do it.you have done it several times.

This is Only the repetition that needs to be done(only people & place are different)(The winning फार्मूला is same,The right smriti)...it's easy.

Examples of Right way of talking in various life's incidences,,,sweetly, calmly,respectfully, passing on the right message,,,,Learning to express right is the way to build bridges,avoid conflicts

Giving  the other person much needed & much deserved Regard,

1. Sorry,if you felt bad,I didn't mean that.I always appreciate you & your good wishes for me..It's  me who sometimes not able to understand it in right way & give right response.
2. Still you always remind me.Take good care for me,save me at every step,Thanks for your cooperation.Thanks for your patience. 
3. Sorry I was in a hurry,I couldn't listen to you properly & judged you wrongly.You were saying things for my benefit.I will try to listen you properly with attention the next time.
4. Please write to me,I will read & respond to you as early as possible. 
5. Please excuse me ,I am in a little hurry,will meet you soon.
6. Let's talk about it a little later please. 
7. Please try to say it in few words ,I will see if something can be done about it.
8. Please don't mind,I can cooperate this much only at this point of time.May be I can do more in future.
9. Please let me know the issues you are facing ,I will try to come up with right solutions that is beneficial for one and all.
10. Just relax,& openly share Please. We have a solution if are willing.

There is a possibility .

It is easy.

It can be done. 

How can we achieve this right communication?

Through right realisation & intention

If we -

ARE Willing.

ARE Interested.

Understand

GIVE Importance

GIVE TIME

GIVE ATTENTION 

Create compulsion 

LOOK FOR Best way

HAVE RIGHT Attitude

ARE Ready

Have Vision

DO Sacrifice

See it as Investment for Future

Give it a trial

Experiment

Setbacks in achieving this right way of communication?

Unjustifable Reasoning

Excuses

Comfort zone.

Fearing Uncertainty .

Fixed mindset .

Narrow view.

Old ways.

Belief systems.

Attached to outcomes

Unable to distinguish between inner vs outer attainments .

Not able to realise inner satisfaction that comes from Love for Values ,character,greatness, inner attainments purpose &  meaning in life,success,dignity,love,goodwishes.

Things needed for such right way of communication?

Analytical skills 

Discretion  power of Intellect.

Trust  in your purpose.

Past

Right timing.

Swamaan's Use For Better Work Efficiency

 

Jaisa samay waisa swaroop..

We will be using these points in different murlis connecting To daily life scenarios & present an Intelligent/Educative way to Balance our intellects  in a scientific way & make our psychological 

Self heal taking more appropriate moves in their life

अदब से चलना है, दैवी फसीलत को याद रखना है।

मीठा बनना है। प्यार से चलना है सबसे। छोटे बड़े की समझ रखनी है, सीखना है अपने से आगे वालो से। समय बचाना है, वैरीफाई कराना है हर बात मे हम कहा ं तक ठीक है, और क्या ऐसा परिवर्तन करे जो मार्ग सहज हो जाए और मेहनत से छूट जाए। मत लेनी है। बाप का मददगार बनना है, जिम्मेवार बनना है, श्रीमत को गंभीरता से समझना है, पीहर घर ससुर घर दोनों का कल्याण करना, अंदर बाहर एक रहना है, अनेक जन्मों के हिसाब को समझना है, एक दम साधारण बनना है,

 बनावट दिखावा छोड़ देना है, सीधी सच्ची बात करनी है, वाणी में महसूसता भरनी है,सभी आत्माओं का अपने जीवन में महत्व समझना है, उन्हें दिल से शुक्रिया करना है और अपनी भूलों की क्षमा याचना करनी है,,,,,,,,, जैसे कह सकते हम आपको समझ नहीं पाए, आपने बचपन से हमें ठीक राय दी, हम अपनी धुन में रहें, आज हमने घर की वैल्यू, अपनों की वैल्यू,अच्छे कर्म की वैल्यू ,अपनी विशेषता की वैल्यू को हमनें जान लिया है , हमें सब कुछ रिएलाइज कराने वाला, ऊँची समझ देने वाला एक परमात्मा बाप है,

Deivi chalan, ek ne kaha doosre ne maani, mutual agreement. 

Difference of opinion brought to one common opinion seeing the scope of vast world transformation to be brought.

Immediate benefits

1.Swayam ka sudhar, egoless.

2.Work flow efficient, karya nirvighan,fast, teevra gati.

Productive.result oriented Sewa.

3.Family life to be created(pravriti,Mata pita, bhai, behn)United... Bonded.Preet.

Ghar mein living simply. Doesn't matter, kiski mani jaye.. Karya achha hona chaiye.

Treasure of positive thoughts ready..

Readying self for Contribution

Kya badi baat hai.. Kisi  ko zada pta hai jis subject mein wo veh kar rha, hume sahyog dena hai.. Pyar se chalna hai.. Regard dena hai.. Hume apni visheshtaon ka sahyog dena hai. Koi comparison nai... Chhota bada nai.... Tera mera nai.. Hume respect karni hai doosre ki sewa bhavna ki, time ki, upasthiti ki..kadar rakhni hai doosre ke samay, shvaas, sankalp, bol roopi khazane ki, baar baar mehnat nai leni hai... 

Free from comfort zone

Kuchh karke dikhana hai... 

Naaz nakhre.. 

Bachpana ab chhod dena hai... 

Aaram pasandi chhod deni hai.. 

Karan nai dene... 

Gege nai karna hai..

to to nai  karna hai.. 

Pta nai.. 

Pta Nai nai karna hai.. 

Dekhenge sochenge.. 

Plan bnaege.. 

Hona toh chaiye.. 

Karna toh chaiye ..

hona toh to chaiye. 

Ban hi jaenge...nai..

Kar ke hi dikgaegnge.... 

DETERMINATION ..Ho jaega

Lakshya rakhenge..

note karenge..Ho jaega.. 

Hua hi pda hai..

 Furi furi se talab bhar hi jaega. 

Hum nai karenge toh kon karega.. 

Humne hi kiya hai kalp pehle bhi ab bhi hum hi karenge.. 

Humara karya hai.. 

Humare baba ka karya hai. . . 

Hume uski paalna ka return karna hai.. 

Hume uska naam bala karna hi hai.. 

Hum mould hone wale hai..

3.Hum vishwa sewadhari hai.. 

Hum niswartha sachhe sewadhari hai..

Hum aapsi mat bhed, vair virodh, irsha dwesh se pare ek pita ke bachche hai aapas mein bhai bhai hai.. 

Hum unche alaukik karya karne ke nimit hai, hum had ke bandhano se mukt hai.. 

Hum sangathan ki shakti dwara asambhav ko sambhav karne wale hai.. 

Hum dehi abhimani.. 

All round sewadhar hai.. 

Hum shivbaba ke bhandare se khate hai... Humara koi apna alag alag koi chhupa hua koi kaarobaar nai hai.. 

Humara ek hi karya ek hi baap ek hi ghar hai. Ek hi parivaar hai. 

Hum apne hi tan man dhan se bharat ko swarg bnane ki sewa par upasthit hai.. 

Hum yagya rakshak, 

ek do ki himmat badane wale,

ek do ka umang badane wale, 

ek do ka sahaara banne wale, 

ek do ka maan badane wale,

ek do ko pyar ki drishti se dekhne wale,

ek do mein nishchaya rakhne wale, ek do ki shakti badane wale,

ishare se chalne wale,

silence bal ka jalwa dikhane wale, 

powerful vatavaran banane wale, 

main mere se mukt chhote chhote vighno se mukt, 

achal, ekras santusht, bhagyashali aatma hain.

Hum tyag tapasya ka jeevanta udharan hai.. Hum vishwa ke liye aadhar murt,uddhar murt, udharanmurt, 

poojya aur poorvaj aatma hoon.

4. shrestha sankalp dhari,

 shreshtha karmdhaari, 

 mahan aatma hoon,

 punya aatma hoon, 

 main vishwa parivartak,

 light house, 

 might house 

 master gyan surya aatma hoon. 

 Main baap ki sapoot, agya kari, 

 vafadaar,farmaanbardaar aatma hoon.

 

Main kalp pehle wali vijayi aatma hoon.. 

Main baap ki Aashon ka deepak, 

parivaar ka priye, 

vishwa ka priye,

behad ki duaein jama karne wali aatma hoon.

5.KARM KaLa/PaVitra sansaar/NatuRaL yOgI

Main sarvgun sampann solah kalah sampann banne wali divya aatma hoon. 

Main har karm  ko kala ke roop mein, 

udte udte karne wali aatma hoon.. 

Main har karya ko interesting banane wali .. Har mushkil ko asaan karne wali..

 Jeevan mein ras gholne wali, 

bade dil wali mehnat se mukt, 

sahej yogi, swatha yogi, natural yogi aatma hoon. 

Main aatma sangam yuga ki maujo ka bharpoor anand lene wali aatma hoon.

Main aatma behad ki buddhi wali, 

ghar ke mahatva ko samajh vikaaro se mukt rahene wali.. 

Duniyawi bhapko se door se rahne wali.. Pavitra sansaar mein rahne wali.. 

Apna pavitra sansaar rachne wali, 

kisi bhi nakaratmak, 

aur ashudh sankalp se mukt rahne wali param pavitra, 

pujya aatma hoon.

6.NIRBANDHAN KARM/FaRIShTa-Sakaash

Main apne stritva ko maan de sadharan karya karte bhi unchi stithi dwara, kahin par bhi chakkar lagane mein saksham hoon. Teeno lok, vishwa ka koi bhi kona, charo hi yuga second mein kahin par bhi ja sakti hoon.Saara vishwa mere liye khula hai. Main avyakt farishata baap ka saathi kahin bhi second mein chakkar laga sakti hoon. 

Main nirbabdhan aatma hoon,

 mukt hoon, 

videshi hoon,

nirakaar hoon. 

Suksham vatan ki niwasi hoon, 

mera avatar hua hai baap ke sath vishwa mein naye dharam ki sthapna liye.

Baap ka paigaam sabko dene liye. 

Sabko deh ke dharamo se chhudaye ek sat dharam mein stith karne liye. 

Mera janam  hi hua hai vishwa se andhkaar mitane liye. 

Mera janam hi hua hai behad sewa dwara vishwa ka malik banne ke liye.

 

Awake arise,Pay regards & Earn blessings

You are lifting someone by Bowing down.

Creating a drama,a play to make them feel good,to get them out of their weakness or inferiority..showing from your deeds" be easy,it's ok"It happens to all of us.We shouldn't take it so seriously that we loose the faith in ourselves.While you do so for your loved ones, The ironical tendency of human mind awakens ,It wants to feel superior to everyone around(  including those who uplifted them by coming down) & also wants it's near & dear ones(especially those uplifted them)around to be happy & successful.Now the question is if you compare & create ways to make others feel their shortcomings either by directly saying ,or through your activities,can it lead it to make them feel happy & work upon themselves for a successful life inside out.So,why do I take the path of contradicting aim & result.Shouldn't I too make an aim of learning this art of drama/play for rising up others.Though,it requires a lot of courage,planning things right & selfless attitude,the results are amazing.It certainly leads to a profound realization that it's never about them,that they need to lift me up or I need to uplift them up or even either that they are better or I am better It's just that we all have our strengths & shortcomings & our own favourable days. When you are in good state of mind,help others , appreciate & express your gratitude for those days in which they helped you & come out of your limitedness.Work upon yourself to get better with each day passing.Compare with your previous version of self,& do such elevated deeds that you don't need to compare with others to feel superior & then when you really do so,you are coming close to learning the art of uplifting others.And the one who makes this as their only occupation really becomes a cause of happiness & success in others life.So,the very aim of self respect, truth & selflessness has conquered the human mind tendency of comparing & competing with others & causing sorrow for those it wishes happiness & success.This merely is achieved  by right form of expression of appreciation & gratitude in our daily living that opens the locks of our destiny because we are able to give regard to those actually acted as Backbone in our lives in secret in one or the other way

Real definitions of Real Educated one

 

Who is big

The soul who knows how to go beyond his ego and adopt humility in life irrespective of his worldly achievements is said to be big. 

Who is successful

The soul who understands the trick of being stable in all scenes of victory and failure is said to be successful. Such souls go beyond the bondage of temporary scenes and appreciate the wonder of life at large , knowing that each scene are designed for their benefit.

Who is healthy

The soul who constantly creates positive thoughts thereby maintaining a clean, pure aura is said to be healthy. 

Who is happy

The soul who understands the deep philosophy that happiness is his own inherent quality instead of searching for it outside is said to be happy. 

 

Who is contended

The soul who is in constant awareness of the drama and knows that each scene is accurate as per the law of karma is said to be contended. 

Who is rich

The soul who considers himself to be the rightful heir of the divine fortune and becomes an embodiment of God’s powers and virtues is said to be rich. 

Who is famous

The soul who has surrendered his life to Godly service and goes beyond the expectations of the results of their karma is said to be famous. 

Who is right

The soul who follows Shrimat accurately and goes beyond following Manmat or Parmat is said to be right in all circumstances.

Who is religious

The soul who has the clear intellect to recognize God in his most incognito form and follows His directions by letting go of the path of devotion is said to be religious. 

Who is wise

The soul who keeps the world cycle in his intellect and modifies his life goals as per the importance of time , is called wise. 

Who is great

The soul who is constantly soul-conscious and considers others to be his equal and goes beyond the societal differences of gender,caste,creed, nationality, social rank, cultural diversity etc is said to be great. 

Who is success

Success can be defined as a state of mind or a feeling of positive emotions independent of the current situation.

 

Who is fulfilled

The soul who has found his purpose of life and reason for his existence can be called fulfilled.

Who is respected

The soul who stays in the intoxication of swamaan bestowed upon by the Supreme Father is automatically respected by all. 

Who is soul conscious

The soul who keeps the mantra of Manmanabhav and Madhyajibhav in his awareness is automatically soul conscious.

Who is loved

Serviceable children who assist the Father in His great task of world transformation is loved by the Supreme soul himself.

Who is cared

The soul who surrenders himself completely to the one true God becomes the Father’s responsibility and is said to be cared for. 

Who is appreciated

The soul who goes beyond the desires for appreciation each time he undertakes a task be it in spiritual service or in lokik life is said to be appreciated. 

Who is praise worthy

The soul who inculcates divine virtues and becomes equal to the Father , thereby revealing Him in thoughts, words and actions is said to be praise-worthy. 

Who is beneficial

True Brahmin souls who take the path of unlimited renunciation to bring about the revolution of Truth is said to be beneficial for the world. 

Actions & Affirmations in Daily life incidences

 

Showing Path,Giving lesson to someone 

You are right with such & such things..much appreciated..great.showing interest in their life..oh you did this..wow,you are so courageous. I have been trying to do this from such long time & you already did it.You are so wonderful, awesome.Kindly share your story with us so that we too refine ourselves.

Appreciation & learning & making other feel special & worthy,Making their heart happy,while you visit someone

You do so many tasks.oh wow,How do you such mange things with such perfection. WHAT is your secret of such power & memory.

Feeling doubt on some experienced soul

This much is right,I understood.They are so experienced & elders to us in this path.I respect them for moving obstacle free for such a long time,This is their glory.They may be right on their part but can you show me some light on this aspect so that I have a better understanding over this matter. 

Someone complaining  about someone They do many other good things,let's focus on them,these are just small little things,petty issues.I know their qualities.They are good enough.Small things will just vanish in no time.

Expecting perfection

Things will work,whatever is there is also no less.Things will eventually become perfect.Either we make it perfect or leave it on time for other conditions to settle.

Making other Enthu .. we too will do it.

Increasing confidence..Let's make it work

Increasing Hope..It's easy.

Showing positive pride.. I have done it several times.

Increasing courage.. Possible!!

Showing optimism..This much is done,realized,Rest too will also be done.No big deal,supreme is with us