When children are caught up doing mistakes

When children are caught doing mistakes, or going on wrong path. 

Do we judge them, scold them, victimise them

Or do we love them, accept them, empower them, educate them.Do we have that much power. That much patience. 

Or do we take up an easy way.. Just Slap, speak wrong words, put up labels on them. 

If we see anyone weak, do we try to know the probable reason behind it & fill in the power & strength in them & make them powerful. 

Do we go back to our own childhood & youthful days & see what were our dreams & desires at those times & how we wished to fulfill those. 

Did we like roaming around, decorating ourselves, making friends &,move around in pure pride & do whatever feels right.

Even bunking the class, going for a movie or party.

If children try to share their concerns, do we have a listening ear or we simply reject them by saying this is all useless. You are thinking a lot.

Go & concentrate on your studies.

When you become something, everything will be finished. You will become happy then.

But what about now what i am feeling now.

Fear, anxiety, guilt, resentment, inferiority. 

All my friends have loving parents, caring parents who give them their time & attention. They bring them gifts, take them out for picnic & recreation. They occasionally praise them, appreciate them & love them.They tell them their qualities & help them develop their skills. 

They guide them, protect them, caution them at every step. 

They don't judge or scold them. They empathize with them & reach them through examples. 

They lighten their children with their sweet words, loveful words, respectful words. 

Their words give them courage, make them brave., fill in enthusiasm in them.Make them feel worthy. different from crowd. One in a million.

They would cover their mistakes & create heaven out of it.