Conversation Rules.

 

• Listen to understand (not answer),
• Listen without any preconceived notion.(wall).,prior impression/judgement.
• Come in contact without any aim(object),motive,welcome the other person first .Greet them well first.
• First have respect for the other person for their time /energy.
• For a good conversation,Let the conversation be Freely flowing.Become free from any attachment to result or be time concious repeatedly,enjoy the  sharing & learning something new in the process.
• Give space for the person to think & process & answer after you say something.
• Be kind & compassionate towards the needs of others.Ligthen them.Make them comfortable to able to express right.Don't try to judge anyone immediately.There can several reasons be there for the other one not to answer & remaining silent.(may be saving your respect or may be waiting for right time to answer or may be waiting for other factors to settle down).Becoming detached,Smiling & Silence is the best answer many a times.
• Do not see people with labels because that will color your vision & love will stop flowing.Connection would not occur & understanding will not happen & opinions will differ
• Knowledge is what to say ,wisdom is when to say.
• Do not aim to know everything.Whatever piece of knowledge is available at this time is enough for my spiritual sustainence.Things will start unfolding at their right time.

Thankyou.

Om shanti