Being Free from Mental cages

 Is Leaving a Relation Completely an only "Option"for getting the" Detachment " Easy.💡

You had a very good relation,understanding ,positive energy exchange with someone.🏹

You see the :-

• Love(Great,Well done,Nice),

• Care(Take care,)

• Goodwishes(May You reach heights)

• Respect(Do it the way you like,freedom of choice)

Suddenly you start to feel ,you need the both,the relationship as well as your freedom. For that what is the way.🎃

Let's start seeing from beginning what happens when two souls comes in close connection with each other.They try to change each other a little,start presenting their opinion which we usually resist & not very open to.We like to live & work in our fixed ways ,Anyone who tries to bring in any new idea or opinion,🎊 ,we straightfully reject them giving our own reasoning/justification for why things are like this the way they are.

Our intellect's reasoning & analysis is so fast that we are able to process past,present & future at a fast lightening speed that we imagine only hurdles that are going to come if we adopt the change in our mindset  & oversee the possibility of a better life that will come after we adopt the change.🎄

Life is uncertain ,Life is diverse & that itself is the beauty of it.Sometimes it really comes as a surprise & offers you enormous 🎁gifts.The question comes here again, Am I Open .

Am I available .Am I ready to change.

Do I trust life & all that happens around,or do I always questions with own set of if's & but's & conditions that this should happen or that should happen.🎉

I am elder,I know better,I am on a position.

What actually happens is by saying all above we are closing the way to love & goodwishes from the others.The souls fear coming closer to you as you are a posing a threat in front of them on their self respect.🥇

Love,respect ,trust all is at stake at that moment.

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Let's pose a solution to the situation, 

Agreed,We have our reasoning,issues,seniority,real life time bound challenges with completely  fixed disciplined schedules for fixed set of activities & meetings with fixed set of people.🎭

Anything/anyone new  from outside seems like a distraction,a problem,a challenging situation .Well,it all depends upon our mindset again.How we see them,..as a threat,a problem or the one who is a well wisher who understands you,respects you,cares for you.Give it some time,give it a chance.The more you create the vibration of :-♠️

1. "They don't understand "

2. "They don't know the value of time/thoughts ".

3. "They don't know the principles of work,office laws & discipline "

4. "They don't know the spiritual laws of sadhna & soul's recording process".

5. "They don't know what to say or what not to" and so on.

The more you see it in reality🌞. That's why it is rightly said that " It's all in mind".The things on which we focus more grows bigger & bigger in reality.🎲

Therefore before believing any weak thought that is coming in your mind,check & examine it for it's reality of How true is it in current times.🌟Times are changing at a fast pace,am I also changing with time at a same pace or am I holding on my old beliefs in my mindset creating an uncomfortable space for my ownself along with others who have a very good & pure feeling 🌈for us & we are sitting in our own self created cookons not ready to accept them & their elevated feelings for us feeding our own 🏓doubts,assumptions, fears & insecurities remaining close in our small little shells☔ of old thinking patterns & beliefs ,being stubborn, fearful,adamant & arrogant in our lives ,becoming a matter of concern for our loved ones causing them worry & tension affecting their life too.🏑

A more intelligent approach apart from judging,labeling & fearing our loved ones would be to clearly talking out the matters & take their kind advice over the matter & make them come to terms with your current situation🏈 & decisions & they willingly give you a leave to carry on your work related duties or even the spiritual endeavors🔊. Be sure that,NO one wants to come in your path to perfection, it's just that it feels good to meet ,care ,share feelings with others & give each other a feeling of belongingness for a better psychological strength & support⛳.This is something a spiritual  person should itself plan, to give due attention(by having a talk,giving/sharing little things,sharing ideas) to their loved ones well considering it to be equally important apart from their existing duties & endeavors.Being responsible with this aspect too as you are with other areas of your life.🎯

So,The path to spirituality is not leaving our loved ones,running away from them labeling them with not being  "so called knowledge full",⚡ ,it is to realize our own" mental cages" &" confused state of mind" that we create confusion & disregard for them too in our hurry & rush causing them hurt.🔕So,on one hand we are doing spiritual efforts for becoming bondage free & on the other hand we are causing others more pain & hurt with our limited attitudes & ❄️unaware/uncontrolled thinking & thus creating more karmic bondages.

Apart from everything else we always have a wonderful Tool of Check & Change🔔 bringing in peace & Happiness in everyone's life.🎼

Thanks & om shanti.

IBY♥️