Qualities of a mother that keeps her in winning position

See a mother who is dedicated towards caring and sustaining a child.Her all Happiness,her all love,her all strength goes towards upbringing a child,giving him everything best..diet,health,education,friends,even the life partner when the child grows up enough.You can imagine what are the feelings of a mother when she sees her child doing good in his study,clearing  job interviews,settled with everything best in Life.We just have to look into her eyes..those sparkling eyes says it all ,you have to see how her world is complete and full  when his child is complete.There is nothing else that she needs other than his child's success and happiness.A mother really has a Big heart...she is merciful,she is kind,she is compassionate,She is gentel yet the most powerful.She is the first teacher,she is the caretaker,she is the guide,she is the sustainer,she is the guru even who disciplines the child when he is mischievious. Her tolerance and paitence are her greatest tools.Her unadultered love makes the child learn the lesson and bring in transformation and become a man of value.The qualities that a mother/women possess is really endless.She is the creator and the sustainer and even the destroyer of all evil.Women is half man in her self,but a man can never be a woman in every sense.Greatness and limitlessness is something that she possess in large amounts which practically has no match if we compare the same with male counterparts.A woman is complete even without a man.But a man never is.By saying this,we are not being gender biased but simply quoting the fact,as if not all relations,atleast a man would need a mother for emotional support on the contrary a woman is already fulfilled enough with all the motherly qualities as well as the male qualities of  determination and discipline 

Purpose of life

The purpose of living is
To fulfill our dreams.
To express our uniqueness
To experience Living values.
To grow and evolve.
and the most importantly coming close to God.
There have been times in the soul journey when it experienced abundance and fulfillment  both internally and externally.That was our golden time.when soul had all its treasure stores full.
Relationships perfect...unconditional,selfless, loving, it's foundation being grounded on trust and whole essence of relationships was to give happiness ,thus freedom was experienced naturally and there was no bondage.
(no insecurity,no lack of trust ,no possesiveness, no selflishness or any kind of business transactions)
A freedom is something that every soul longs for,any kind of physical or mental prison subdues a soul's capability to express itself whether on relationship front or on work front.The unlimited potential that the soul carries within itself comes out best when it is set free.It is important to understand that It is Love in any relation that frees the soul and makes it capable.
A capable soul is able to think and do things creatively which only is the secret for fulfillment and experiencing richness.Thinking different,Thinking New,Thinking Big.Thinking innovative.Thinking out of box is then possible.
We,the souls are here to express and experience life in its full spectrum.
Its the journey of  life ,where we,the living stars experience every feeling,where we taste sweetness of life.
Life is indeed beautiful if we have that third eye to look at it in a very non judgemental & non critical way.
Just look at relationships
father-son
mother-daughter
mother-son
father-daughter
brother-sister
husband-wife
friends
Teacher-student
Guru-disciple
Every relation has a different kind of attainment, uniqueness, Beauty,Royalty & regulation too.
They all are mutually exclusive and no one relation can replace the other ones.Each one has its own beauty and sweetness.In order for the soul to feel complete and grow ,it needs the sweetness and love of all relations.We,the human beings are actually the beings of love and wisdom & knowledge is something which we all carry without exception.Some have knowledge of house keeping,some may have knowledge of shopping and making good wise decisions on budgeting things,others may have good sense on comparing things,finding plus/ minus of things and choosing the best deal,some may be good at making friends.. Each quality is of best use when accompanied with divinity which comes through spiritual knowledge & connection with ocean of love & purity, our Beloved Almighty supreme father. This actually is the only purpose of our lives, to live higher, to live in peace & love(purity) with self & others. 

Love & Light,
A living ⭐star.

Golden age is not far:Beauty & Love all around

Change attitude,
Become beneficial for others,& you become valuable. All good things in life. Free. Start fulfilling others and you fulfill yourself. Value health, value loved ones, value character and you increase your treasures. Help others and you becoming worthy of all the blessings. Embrace life, deepen living. Become available. Give attention and manifest a new reality. Add beauty, add fragnance to living & just enjoy being...still & tranquil.Practise compassion, do an act of kindness, care, share,smile. Donate little,feel abundance, fortunate. Give life and live long. Touch lives and rule hearts.Give rights and Get cooperation. Love unconditionally  and swing in joy, bliss and peace. Give regard and wear the crown 👑 of carefree emperor. Give  flowers 🌸🌺🌻🌹🌷🌼💐of virtues and  keep sitting in garden of Allah. Flow the unadulterated love of God to all and remain filled with his platonic pure sacred love. Shine upon like light in everyone's life & remain full with God's light in every step.Decorate self with the ornaments/jewels of knowledge & keep on radiating your inner beauty.Enrich your life with godly versions, and feel abundance & fortune. Sitting in the garden, river of love flowing, birds 🐦twittering, you wearing a crown,a book in hand enjoying the beauty of 🌿🍃nature, fresh air around, clouds passing  by,  raindroplets on flowers and you singing your songs,sometimes of peace, sometimes of love & sometimes of bliss. Aha.....A feeling of aha..!!

Love & Light,
A diva.

Knowing Who's who... An easy way to Rise above mistakes & become Complete.

Brahmin life.. Devi fasilat, adab, regard for those above you. A Learning experience to become a deity.This only the
Purification process.(yagya ki prakriya hi shudhdhi karan ka marg hai, it's a sahej yoga, pravriti marg).Always Giving answers not important,avoid buddhi ka ahankaar.No saamna Its the path of love(mohabatt),winning hearts.you are under cctv 24*7.Jhukna,sunna, right gestures, right words(gyanyukt, yogyukt) , right intentions, right attitude, reality, royalty very important to increase divinity(divyata),ruhaniyat within.,as it finishes "rob "and makes you sweet. Opens blockages, cures ailments, harmonious relationships, purpose of living achieved.
Tyag tapasya, sewa...madhurta.. Guno ka tap.Becoming madhur bhashi, becoming a real deity calls for not even a slightest rejection to any situation. Winning over the situation calls for good feelings and good wishes, a very deep understanding of karmic accounts and a clear mirror to see self.
Someone Uplifting you.. Giving you equal status, chance. Up to you now how you cash the opportunity.. Win hearts or give people reason to put you in scrap section. Become samaan sathi, samaanta se Milan mannane wale ya door se darshan karne wale. Someone giving you privilege to be of their kul. Samaan sathi.Valuing that status takes you to heights.

A very deep secret worth knowing :-

Those who are yagya sewadharis.. Vishwasewadharis..Gets few lifetime godly rights, authority based on their strong base life's dharna. They may be walking, talking, doing things ordinarily but status difference is always there.They have got some special sidhdhis, some special vardaans that's why No one has the power to challenge or can afford to copy them. What is given to them as  a right may not be a right for others .Coz it is him (Baba)who knows the journey, services, purity level and accordingly decides everyone's parts/status.of present time. Copying or comparing with someone may put one in extreme difficulties. So, It is the task of one's wisdom and broad intellect to judge  who is higher than us and come in connection accordingly and free self from making blunders. (Mistakes made in ignorance of who the other person is ,to whom you are talking.).your act goes to positive negative or neutral account based on your intention plus based on the other person's role & situation.So, along with knowing your role & power, it is equally important to know the other person's role, power & occupation. Then it's Very easy way to become free from waste account and avail an opportunity to easy learning on making self complete.
It really is a wise decision to leave your little egos  in terms of your choices,preferences & comforts and engage self in unlimited services. To decide whether it is self respect or ego is a task of a very pure intellect. A helpful filter/check for same.. Check if any of your decision is just for saving & benefiting self or is it bringing some benefit to others at large. Say someone offering you some help, you don't accept it saying I prefer doing things on my own can be called as being adamant when there is no good reason behind not accepting the help. You could save your time and put it in service and bring benefit to many through your skills, knowledge, stage etc and further increase your self respect and become valuable. So, at every step of life ,when we challenge and leave our egoes we start becoming full of self respect and a valuable jewel. Lieing to self and saving the ego and making your self comfortable in small little cookons is the job of the one who is lazy,coward and prefer to stay blind to the truth. Still, Sangamyug is an age of self realisation and transformation if one really has courage to do so, father is always there to help and take us across.

Love, Light & good wishes for all

Shakti avtaar😎

chose company wisely

Stay away from negative people, they have a problem for every solution. You should always limit your time with people that continually drain your energy and add no value to your life. Negative people are usually very committed, to being negative, and the more you push them to be anything else, the more they will push back. This doesn’t mean you show no compassion towards others. Live with compassion. Live with empathy. Do all that as a standard practice of being a decent human being, but keep your life free from the drama and negativity that is not who you are.

If your attempts to lift someone out of negativity are unsuccessful, you have to move on. They will get to a better place when they’re ready to get to a better place and no one will get there if they’re not ready, whether they are pushed or not.

The people in your life should be reducing your stress, not causing more of it. If you consider yourself to be a positive person and want to live your best life, surround yourself with positive people. Surround yourself with people that make you feel good about being yourself. Surround yourself with people that see the good in the world. By doing so, you will see more good too. You will attract more good. Don’t let them drain your energy. Energy doesn’t discriminate. Just like weight lifting, If you focus on getting one body part stronger, and you put all your energy, focus and effort on that muscle group, working on it every day, that muscle will get stronger. If you put all your energy into negative people, your life will be negative.

If your attention is on what's wrong with your life, If your attention and energy is on the negative people and the negativity they bring, that will invade your life. Keep your focus on what is good and you will see more good. More good will grow just like a muscle. The same is true on the opposite side. If you lie down with negativity, you will be consumed with negativity. You are what you eat and you are who you spend your time with by choice. What you consume will consume you. Your friends and peer group are a great reflection of you because you chose them. Choose wisely.

Don’t chase people. Be Yourself. Do your own thing and work hard. The right people, the ones who really belong in your life will come to you and stay. 🌷🌈

winning love of shiva

Shivaratri ~ Union of ShankarParvati! The divine union which takes place when Shiva comes to meet Shakti represents enlightenment in absolute darkness! ShivaShakti, the Union of heart and mind. The two who are one, ShankarParvati, the soul and energy in the working. The soul is the consciousness, The mind is the matter. Shiva, the soul and Parvati, the mind. Sati loved Shiva to the core and being his wife became her motto. She left the pampered life of the family palace and retired to the forest to worship Shiva. She worshipped him day and night with her rigorous penance.

Although Daksha called Shiva uncivilised, a destroyer of all things respected in culture, Sati married Shiva anyway. 
But after Sati immolated herself in fire Shiva isolated himself amongst the snow covered peak of Kailasha. He rejected the world outside as so distraught was he after the loss of his first true love. Immersed in mediation, he performed great tapas that produced heat and energy. His mind was filled with great knowledge, and his body became resplendent with energy but all this energy and knowledge bottled within his being was of no use to anyone. "I will coil myself around Shiva, wean out his energy and knowledge for the good of the world and make him father a child," said Shakti!

Shakti took birth as Parvati. The first word that Parvati uttered was SHIVA. She was determined to draw Shiva out of his cave and make him her consort. "this unshakable heart knows no other feeling than love. Those whose goals are set don't care about criticism." It was after a lot of penance that Parvati won the love of Shiva and married him. Parvati is referred to as the symbol of love and devotion. She is also referred as as the embodiment of devotion in a marriage and is known to have reduced the anger of Shiva immensely through her affection. Their love is honest and equal. It balances male and female, spirit and matter! Shiva is able to function when united with Shakti, otherwise he is inert.!! 

thankyou god for Life

The world is not all sunshine and rainbows! But a good amount of it actually is. It’s not always a very happy, care-free life where you have just about everything you want.

In the larger spectrum of life, yes, you will go through things you couldn’t imagine. There will be days where you absolutely want to just scream into a pillow and maybe sleep all day. But there will be more days when you absolutely fall in love with being alive. Your favorite song will come on the radio and you’ll have an iced coffee in your hand and your best friend next to you singing along, and you will realize life is SO good. What a privilege it is to be alive, to breathe, to think, to feel, to enjoy, to experience love. Each moment is a gift. Enjoy it, because we do not know what the future will bring.

Even though life can be very hard sometimes, but that’s okay because life is amazing! No one has a perfect life, but happy positive people focus on the good rather than dwell on the negative. Know that life is really a reflection of our thoughts; our thinking becomes our emotions, and our emotions become our character. Focus on the good. Concentrate on the positive. We are so blessed and even though there will be thunderstorms in your life, there will be way more rainbows and butterflies and flowers in your life and the good will absolutely outweigh the bad. So Stay positive and be thankful to God for the gift of life. !