Monday, June 14, 2021

An ideal Elder.




Elder means humble, 

Elder means caring,

Elder means knowledge ful, 

Elder means responsible.

Elder means wise. 

Elder means equality (samdrishti). .

Elder means selfless. 

Elder means fearless.

Elder means acceptance. 

Elder means merciful. 

Elder means lawful. 

Elder means balanced.

Lawful

Improving character of a loved one by giving small little punishments eg not talking for somewhile.

Not giving them their things easily & let them understand the value & hard work that is put/invested behind anything. 

Earn before you spend. 

Giving a task in their planned schedule (small responsibility to create a sanskaar of obedience, sacrifice & trust in Baba, family, drama & good deeds) 

My own motives, enjoyment, desires, ideas, respect, security all on one side 

Elder....Got this position, to serve .

Seeing weaknesses & unfulfillment & making effort to fulfill them. 

Palanhaar, maat pita. 

Equality & acceptance in seeing two souls with different qualities & capabilities. Acknowledge the qualities of introvert ness, kindness, love, accuracy, honesty in one child if he is lacking other outgoing qualities of singing/dancing/playing/speaking.Not comparing & degrading one in front of other. (Marks, outer talents) 


Selfless & unconditional

Not counting on time & attainments that she is going to get in return. 


Giving unconditionally & wholeheartedly

 to all & forever (sabhi ko aur sada) 

A Mother doesn't see her comfort before his child.. Remains awake even at night to care for child if he is sick. Uplift a child, educates a child if he is not very good at his even the normal daily routine tasks. 

Boosts his confidence & self respect if he compares with his fellow friends & relatives. & motivates him to do enough hard work in life to excel in life. 

Enjoying & celebrating with him every little success. A feeling of euphoria , on top of the world. Dancing in joy. 





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