Friday, June 30, 2023

Pay back.


Do we use mistakes & weaknesses of others for our fun & selfish pride. 

A way to show ourselves better or great..

Do we realise the harm we are causing to other soul's self esteem.

Is our wisdom or power for this purpose.

Exploit innocent one's. 

Can we pay back the self respect the soul has earned through its actions. 

When children are caught up doing mistakes

When children are caught doing mistakes, or going on wrong path. 

Do we judge them, scold them, victimise them

Or do we love them, accept them, empower them, educate them.Do we have that much power. That much patience. 

Or do we take up an easy way.. Just Slap, speak wrong words, put up labels on them. 

If we see anyone weak, do we try to know the probable reason behind it & fill in the power & strength in them & make them powerful. 

Do we go back to our own childhood & youthful days & see what were our dreams & desires at those times & how we wished to fulfill those. 

Did we like roaming around, decorating ourselves, making friends &,move around in pure pride & do whatever feels right.

Even bunking the class, going for a movie or party.


If children try to share their concerns, do we have a listening ear or we simply reject them by saying this is all useless. You are thinking a lot.

Go & concentrate on your studies.

When you become something, everything will be finished. You will become happy then.

But what about now what i am feeling now.

Fear, anxiety, guilt, resentment, inferiority. 

All my friends have loving parents, caring parents who give them their time & attention. They bring them gifts, take them out for picnic & recreation. They occasionally praise them, appreciate them & love them.They tell them their qualities & help them develop their skills. 

They guide them, protect them, caution them at every step. 

They don't judge or scold them. They empathize with them & reach them through examples. 

They lighten their children with their sweet words, loveful words, respectful words. 

Their words give them courage, make them brave., fill in enthusiasm in them.Make them feel worthy. different from crowd. One in a million.

They would cover their mistakes & create heaven out of it. 




Formation of Belief systems


Children grows.

Children are curious

They see around,They observe. They don't know right, wrongs

They experiment, They try. 

They form beliefs. 

They are conditioned. 

The one who has more money is rich. 

The one who has more things is prosperous.

The one who has many people around them are loved and cared. 

The one who travels around is happier. 

The one who parties every now & then has many reasons to enjoy. 

The one who gets more marks is intelligent. 

The one who are working in big companies are big people. 

The one speaks, sings & dances well is appreciated, praised, accepted & loved by all. 

The one who wears new dresses,, have new things everyday are lucky ones. 

To win, other has to loose. 

There is a competition and race at every step. 

There is a lack, only the one who gets lucky will get the things & the chance. 

If I give away my things, I will experience lack. Let me hide them. 

If anyone sees it, they will ask for it.&,then I have to tell them. 

I have my work schedules & timetable. I can't spare time for listening to others or attending others. I am very busy. 

It is my special day, everyone should give importance & attention to me only. 

It's my turn now, I will get what I have been longing for so long. 








Thursday, June 29, 2023

Ant philosophy

 


"You true effort maker" Go, to the ant  consider its ways and be wise. 

It has no commander, no overseer or ruler yet it stores its provisions in summer and gather its food at harvest. 

"How long will you lie there, when will you get up from your sleep a little sleep, a little slumber a little folding of the hands to rest and poverty will come on you like a bandit and scarcity like an armed Man"

Here's the five philosophies that we can learn from Ants.

1)Ants have no commander ants don't need a

commandert to tell them to get started they work faithfully and need no outside accountability to keep them doing right and doing the right things .

2)They work hard and will replace their anthill when it gets ruined meaning if you want to apply this in your real life. 

Be proactive be honest to yourself and be industrious 

3)Ants plan ahead.Ants think winter all summer long they store provision in summer they think the clock is running out of time and they are hurrying to get food back to their hive, meaning they hustle hard in advance to secure their future.

Ants stay positive always ants remind themselves that winter does not last long they know they'll soon be out meaning whatever happens in your life right now, it will not last forever. 

4)Ants never quit they only change their approach if they're going somewhere and you stop them or block their pathway, they'll look for another way up down all around, they keep looking till they find another way, meaning be learned to embrace struggle and hardship in your life. 

5)Be flexible and be like ants who don't quit

Winners are not quitters. 

Ants always do their best meaning give your best in everything you do right now it will always lead you to the greater things and the next level in your life. 

Eagle mentality

 


Don't be a parrot in life
a parrot talks way too much but can't
fly high
but an eagle is silent and has the
willpower
to touch the sky

Here's the seven mentalities that we can
learn from an eagle:-


1)Eagles fly alone at high altitude eagles don't fly with sparrows ravens and other small birds
meaning stay away from narrow-minded people
those that bring you down
eagles fly with eagles there's a saying
that goes like this
people you hang around will eventually
determine the person you become keep good company

2)Eagles have vision
they have the ability to focus on something as far as five kilometers away no matter what the
obstacles the eagle will not move his focus from
the prey until he grabs it meaning have a vision and remain focused in your life
no matter what the obstacles and challenges you may face don't give up and you will succeed

3)Eagles are fearless
an eagle will never surrender to the
size or strength of its prey
it will always give a fight to win its
prey or regain its territory meaning
no matter what the size or big your
problems are,don't give up instead face it
successful people are fearless they face
problems head on

4)Eagles are tenacious
eagles love storm when clouds gather
the eagles get excited the eagles use
the storm wind to lift themselves higher once it finds the wind of a storm
the eagles use the raging storm to lift
itself above the clouds

This gives the eagle the opportunity to
glide and rest its wings in the meantime all
the other birds hide in the branches and
leaves of the tree meaning achievers are
not afraid of challenges
ather they relish in them and use them
for profitability

5)Eagles never eat dead things
eagles never eat dead meat in other
words
an eagle does not scavenge it only eats
the meat from the prey it kills itself
meaning do not rely on your past success
keep looking for new frontiers to
conquer leave your past where it belongs in the past. 


6) Eagles prepare for training
they remove the feather in the soft
grass and the nest so that the young
ones get uncomfortable in preparation
for flying and eventually they fly when it becomes
too unbearable to stay in the nest
meaning leave your comfort zone
there is no growth there. 


7) Eagles possess vitality
when the eagle grows old his feathers
become weak and cannot take him as
fast and as high as it should this makes
him weak
and can make him die so he retires to a
place
far away in the mountains
and while there he plucks out the weak
feathers in his body and breaks his beak and his claws
against the rocks until he is completely
bare a very bloody and painful process then
he stays in his hiding place
until he has grown new feathers new
beaks and claws
and then comes out flying higher than
ever before meaning we occasionally need to shed off old HABITS no matter how difficult things THAT burden us or add NO value to our lives should be let go of. 

Reference 

<https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XLPqy2oO-Eg>

Sunday, June 11, 2023

God's company

You are walking under God's canopy,you are never alone.You are safe.

You have God's love,God's support.You are powerful.

You have God's strength in you.You are an image of support to world.

You have God's blessings with you.You are Successful.

You have God's qualities in you.You are a gift to the world.

You have god as your friend.Whole world is a friend to you.

You are in the God's company,the highest company that colors you soul in the colors of imperishable love & happiness.

Monday, June 5, 2023

Try and succeed

 


Follow your heart

 






Triple filter test


 

What we think,we are


 

Happy chemicals


 

Stage of Mind


 

Do your best


 

Reality to be experienced


 

Truths


 

Life Mantras

 

It doesn't  matter how slowly you go as long as you are always  on move

Rise ।।।glory

Simple

Beauty

Virtue


Positive thinking strategies

picture perfect
Silver lining 
Good thinking
Glass half full

 

Talk to yourself

 


Growth mindset


 

Superior person

 A Superior person thinks of virtue not comfort