Friday, July 7, 2023

When someone starts provoking you



When someone starts provoking you for a fight

Or Confronting. Stay patient. 

Discren & decide whether it is necessary or not. 

If yes, then what is right time

And what is the right way. 

What is the most non violent &, beneficial way to do it. The way that finishes conflict & brings transformation in the soul. & brings everyone in harmony &, peace. 


Go beyond insults/sledging


Go beyond insults/sledging

Critical comments. 

success attracts Lime light 

Enemies born /competition is born for you to maintain your consistency & code of conduct. 

Challenge is to Grow &, achieve even more &, still win 


Wednesday, July 5, 2023

Lion Mentality

 




The greatest fear in the world
is the opinion of others and the moment you're unafraid of the crowd, you are no longer sheep you become a lion a great roar arises in your heart, the roar of freedom. 

Sheep have no freedom the sheep live with fear and uncertainty every day .
A sheep never leads
A lion never follows.
A lion is in complete control of his
or her life. The lion does not accept scraps and does not get told what to do or where to go the lion goes about his business fearlessly and with extreme competence you will never leave the line to the slaughterhouse they will lead you.

The lion is the king of the jungle and it's not because the lion is the biggest it's not because the lion is the fastest. It's not because the line is blessed with any great advantage over other animals it's the mentality of the lion that makes the lion the king of the jungle.What is the lion mentality fearless courage bravery is a key trait
of the lion the lion will never surrender the lion
will never lie down and die not even if surrounded by 10 hyenas, the fight is never over until it's over, maybe you're not surrounded by hyenas. 


May be, you're just buried by bills maybe you
need to stand up for something you believe in that no one around you agrees with, do not give up do not give in, be fearless in going after what you really want in your life. 


Maybe you've been at it for years and
nothing has worked, yet maybe you're tired of hunting your goals and seeing no rewards
do not give up you must keep fighting, you have no guarantee of success if you keep going but you do have possibility there is a chance the only guarantee comes with quitting and that is the guarantee of missing out on the life you really want. keep fighting for the life you must have regardless of the hyenas
no surrender. Certainty the lion is certain
the lion never second guesses.
When the lion goes in it goes in 100 there's nothing half-hearted about the lion
how great could your life be if you
lived with the certainty of a life
what if you just started believing in
yourself and your own abilities
how far could you go with unbreakable
self belief.who could you become if there was no doubt in you if you trusted your
intuition and just went for
everything you want in life with the
same ruthless certainty as a lion hunting its prey you can't rely on other people to achieve
the results you want in your life
you are the only one responsible for
your results.
Take responsibility take ownership
take action only you know what's best
for you in your life only you know which path to take in each moment of your life you must make those decisions with certainty.

freedom the lion has freedom because the
lion demands freedom the lion has freedom because he fights for freedom his very nature says he willdie for that freedom perhaps there is no more valuable asset on this earth than freedom something you could only understand if you've experienced a lack of it in your own life you must fight for it. 

Friday, June 30, 2023

Pay back.


Do we use mistakes & weaknesses of others for our fun & selfish pride. 

A way to show ourselves better or great..

Do we realise the harm we are causing to other soul's self esteem.

Is our wisdom or power for this purpose.

Exploit innocent one's. 

Can we pay back the self respect the soul has earned through its actions. 

When children are caught up doing mistakes

When children are caught doing mistakes, or going on wrong path. 

Do we judge them, scold them, victimise them

Or do we love them, accept them, empower them, educate them.Do we have that much power. That much patience. 

Or do we take up an easy way.. Just Slap, speak wrong words, put up labels on them. 

If we see anyone weak, do we try to know the probable reason behind it & fill in the power & strength in them & make them powerful. 

Do we go back to our own childhood & youthful days & see what were our dreams & desires at those times & how we wished to fulfill those. 

Did we like roaming around, decorating ourselves, making friends &,move around in pure pride & do whatever feels right.

Even bunking the class, going for a movie or party.


If children try to share their concerns, do we have a listening ear or we simply reject them by saying this is all useless. You are thinking a lot.

Go & concentrate on your studies.

When you become something, everything will be finished. You will become happy then.

But what about now what i am feeling now.

Fear, anxiety, guilt, resentment, inferiority. 

All my friends have loving parents, caring parents who give them their time & attention. They bring them gifts, take them out for picnic & recreation. They occasionally praise them, appreciate them & love them.They tell them their qualities & help them develop their skills. 

They guide them, protect them, caution them at every step. 

They don't judge or scold them. They empathize with them & reach them through examples. 

They lighten their children with their sweet words, loveful words, respectful words. 

Their words give them courage, make them brave., fill in enthusiasm in them.Make them feel worthy. different from crowd. One in a million.

They would cover their mistakes & create heaven out of it. 




Formation of Belief systems


Children grows.

Children are curious

They see around,They observe. They don't know right, wrongs

They experiment, They try. 

They form beliefs. 

They are conditioned. 

The one who has more money is rich. 

The one who has more things is prosperous.

The one who has many people around them are loved and cared. 

The one who travels around is happier. 

The one who parties every now & then has many reasons to enjoy. 

The one who gets more marks is intelligent. 

The one who are working in big companies are big people. 

The one speaks, sings & dances well is appreciated, praised, accepted & loved by all. 

The one who wears new dresses,, have new things everyday are lucky ones. 

To win, other has to loose. 

There is a competition and race at every step. 

There is a lack, only the one who gets lucky will get the things & the chance. 

If I give away my things, I will experience lack. Let me hide them. 

If anyone sees it, they will ask for it.&,then I have to tell them. 

I have my work schedules & timetable. I can't spare time for listening to others or attending others. I am very busy. 

It is my special day, everyone should give importance & attention to me only. 

It's my turn now, I will get what I have been longing for so long. 








Thursday, June 29, 2023

Ant philosophy

 


"You true effort maker" Go, to the ant  consider its ways and be wise. 

It has no commander, no overseer or ruler yet it stores its provisions in summer and gather its food at harvest. 

"How long will you lie there, when will you get up from your sleep a little sleep, a little slumber a little folding of the hands to rest and poverty will come on you like a bandit and scarcity like an armed Man"

Here's the five philosophies that we can learn from Ants.

1)Ants have no commander ants don't need a

commandert to tell them to get started they work faithfully and need no outside accountability to keep them doing right and doing the right things .

2)They work hard and will replace their anthill when it gets ruined meaning if you want to apply this in your real life. 

Be proactive be honest to yourself and be industrious 

3)Ants plan ahead.Ants think winter all summer long they store provision in summer they think the clock is running out of time and they are hurrying to get food back to their hive, meaning they hustle hard in advance to secure their future.

Ants stay positive always ants remind themselves that winter does not last long they know they'll soon be out meaning whatever happens in your life right now, it will not last forever. 

4)Ants never quit they only change their approach if they're going somewhere and you stop them or block their pathway, they'll look for another way up down all around, they keep looking till they find another way, meaning be learned to embrace struggle and hardship in your life. 

5)Be flexible and be like ants who don't quit

Winners are not quitters. 

Ants always do their best meaning give your best in everything you do right now it will always lead you to the greater things and the next level in your life.