Transform yourself,Be easily moldable .
The more you mould yourself ,the more you become real gold.
At the time when you get directions from elders become small in following those directions
And at the time when you have to make decisions for your progress(spiritual effort) be the Master at that time.
Expressing your point of view,asking suggestions,putting your thing forward is good
But become equally humble in listening & accepting what final decision comes for common good & following directions
Rituals, celebrations outside in the form of singing,dancing,decorating, enjoying are the form of entertainment & carry deep lessons of life.
Lessons of love, appreciation,sharing,caring,valuing
& bonding.
Am I learning those?
Is Repeating things good.
Is repeating things healthy
Does repeation makes things monotonous.
What change can you make.
Change place ?
Change people?
Change job?
How can you make existing things interesting without much effort & investment when you can't change one or all of the above.
Answer....
Change your angel of viewing.
Move a little your table or chair.
Talk a little different with people you are with.
Little shift in consciousness would get you an altogether a different experience.
Do you like change.
Is change for good.
Is change necessary.
Do you like to live in a perfect world.
Do you like to have different seasons.
Spring,monsoon or there should always be just one season.
Do you like variety.
Do you like entertainment.
Do you like things to be your way or other ways are good too.
Variety is the spice of life,accept change willingly and you will lead a healthy and happy life