Sunday, April 2, 2023

Talk useful


Words are power,Words are energy.Words are a means of destiny.

Choose your words right.

Sense the vibration/frequency/mood of the other person & talk slowly,wisely & gently.

Understand the need of the hour.

Listen carefully & talk only useful & relevant.

Speak essenceful.Be in the moment,Clear your mind.Drop too much detailing & skip Sharing all at once.




Avoid repetition

Your mistake or my mistake.

Your habit or my habit.

I am not giving energy & attention to it & grow it.

Repeatedly talking about some situation increases it's chances/likelihood for its occurence again.

What I see,think & speak ,I become that.

Change your focus,Shift your focus to your strength & you will grow your strengths.

Before pointing at a flaw

Before pointing at a flaw. Accept the person as it is .

You are good.

You are right,

It's ok .

Spot out qualities.Bring them into your awareness.Change your feelings for the person.Give a lot of respect ,

Fill in courage in them & tell them gently their area of improvement .Empower them like this & they will definitely Work upon it.





Being in power



  • Being in power means I have to give rights to others.Right to be the way they are.
  • Being in power, means creating laws that would let self and others grow  as a human being(spiritually & intectually)
  • Being in power means to be responsible enough to teach others through example rather than words.To give them rights to express.
  • Being in Power means speaking &  listening equally.
  • Being in Power means to give others freedom  & empowering them in the process,letting them learn & grow . Support them silently .
  • Being in power means sustaining in silence ..
  • Being in power means Increasing others self respect by making them self sufficient.
  • Being in power means to do everything that Builds bridge between all,increase Mutual trust & create Win win situation for all.
  • Being in power means keeping a Higher vision for others.
  • Being in power means creating a feeling of Belongingness  & care towards others.


Thankyou.

Om shanti




Thursday, March 30, 2023

Conversation Rules.

 


  • Listen to understand (not answer),
  • Listen without any preconceived notion.(wall).,prior impression/judgement.
  • Come in contact without any aim(object),motive,welcome the other person first .Greet them well first.
  • First have respect for the other person for their time /energy.
  • For a good conversation,Let the conversation be Freely flowing.Become free from any attachment to result or be time concious repeatedly,enjoy the  sharing & learning something new in the process.
  • Give space for the person to think & process & answer after you say something.
  • Be kind & compassionate towards the needs of others.Ligthen them.Make them comfortable to able to express right.Don't try to judge anyone immediately.There can several reasons be there for the other one not to answer & remaining silent.(may be saving your respect or may be waiting for right time to answer or may be waiting for other factors to settle down).Becoming detached,Smiling & Silence is the best answer many a times.
  • Do not see people with labels because that will color your vision & love will stop flowing.Connection would not occur & understanding will not happen & opinions will differ
  • Knowledge is what to say ,wisdom is when to say.
  • Do not aim to know everything.Whatever piece of knowledge is available at this time is enough for my spiritual sustainence.Things will start unfolding at their right time.

Thankyou.

Om shanti


Wednesday, March 22, 2023

Strong Managers

 Work Life 


Right mindset

Open ness,

Learning attitude 

Adaptibility

Moulding nature

Regard 

Newness

Out of बॉक्स

सर्कल of possibilities 

Check & change,

Concentration & focus।

Stand

Truth & Honesty

Comfortable & easy atmosphere for all


Productive


Efficient


United


Powerful system,,formalising

Timelines


Policies,strategies, laws,confidentialities

ट्रांसपेरेंसी,Integrity, commitment


Feedback & Report 


Productive

Farsightedness


Target


Faith in system

Hardwork,शार्प work



Regulation of इंफो, filter(मीडिया etc)

No anger,no gossip zone

Discipline,language,,,sweet positive  transformative,appreciative

Truth civilized।।।seeing time ,& person


Create time

Despite distractions 

Go for the goal

Peak & tough times


Tuesday, March 21, 2023

Education system( then vs now)

 



Ancient gurukul system better than modern education system.


The Gurukul system of education was the primary education system in ancient India. In the Gurukul system of education, students went to the teachers house and request them to teach. If guru accepts the students as the shishya. Then the students stayed at the Guru's place itself. And Guru mentored them in all their activities. The advantage of this system was that it created a very good bond between the teacher and his students. Students also learned how to run a family and gain insights on how to deal with society. The current education system and the teachings that are provided today are very different from the ones in the ancient Gurukul system. The global system of education was widely followed in ancient India, and the country was not lesser than the other nations. In fact, India was the one which gave the world zero and it was Indians who first quoted that Earth was round and shape. There was also a mentioned in ancient literature about the demand which we today known as the aircraft. In fact, the Indian system of medicines was also very highly developed, and they had known surgery techniques where they could do surgery. This was the system of education prevalent in India around 5000 BC, during the Vedic age. When values of living a culture life and discipline were given higher priority. This system was widely practised. The home of the guru or the teacher was referred to as the Gurukul. And the student recite that until they completed their education.

 equality for all the students was a major priority for the Gurukul and both the shishayas and the gurus recited at the same place, which created a stronger bonding. The relationship between the students and the teachers was really sacred, and no fees was even charged by the gurus. Instead of fees student paid the respect in the form of Guru Dakshina as the remark for thankfulness to the teacher. The Gurukul system of education emphasised on the all round development of the students. Unlike today, there was a sacred time when teachers were considered as next to God and were given immense respect. In order to keep the students closer to nature. Mostly, the classrooms were also located in the forest areas. Practical science was also given due importance, however, then it was not about securing good marks, but about learning the best. The concept of homework was also not present. And this helped the students in focusing more on their learning skills. Also, unlike the modern days, the craziness for rands did not exist. The Gurukul system taught students about ethics and practical values. practical teaching were given greater importance as compared to the theoretical concepts which dominate today. The aim was to inculcate, identify and nurture individual skills and not a rat race towards good scores. The art of living was taught to the students and in return for these great teachings, student paid the teachers the good reduction, this great system of education unfortunately, vanished in India. After 1835. This was replaced by the modern system of education by Lord McAnally to make the education system more uniform. However, the modern education system is more of a rat race, where the crucial teachings of personality morale consciousness building and ethical training are completely missing, rather than holistic training that must be offered to the students. The institutional concept is majorly commercialised. Nowadays, important skills including physical training are either missing or are given very less importance, which hampers the overall development of the students. Overall, the major ideology behind the ancient Gurukul system was to emphasise the importance of the overall development of the student that can help them in leading a balanced life. These important aspects of life must be taught to the students from a very young age itself. This would help them in making uniform and better decisions on their lifestyle, work routine, and overall matters in life.