Live for others

 Live for others.

Just keep moving in ..we are spiritual beings on human journey .

You never know whom you are gonna meet next

A new friend,a counselor,a guide.

World is a family.You share one or the other similarity with each other with which you connect .Everyone has a story to share.

A loving smile ,an open heart & your availability (listening  ear)help someone feel light & accepted.

Everyone has something to say,give your few minutes,your shoulder to them & feel another level of  energy in you.

What you are seeking is actually seeking you.

You asked for this change ,this meeting,this sharing from God in your silent conversation with him & you are getting it now.

Fill life with such beautiful moments & you will never regret haven't lived full.

It doesn't matter how many years you had life.

What matters is how many moments you actually lived.

Collect these special moments of life where you consciously  lived for others  & feel proud of your living.So that the whole universe says  when you are going to leave the body....Well lived!!once more!

Yunhi chal chal rahi..

Life is a car...time is a wheel.

New people,new conversations. 

Door wo jane kiska gaon hai...

Free yourself ...Celebrate living..

 Kholo kholo darvaje parde karo किनारे 

Free self from everything that is binding you.

Kite

Let's decorate sky

If you hv thirst,there is rain

No one stopping

You are sunshine...

You are river..flow

Flow somewhere,fly somewhere 

Heart happy...destination 

A path is formed by walking.

We waste our time waiting for a path to appear. But it never does. Because we forget that paths are made by walking, not waiting. And we forget that there’s absolutely nothing about our present circumstances that prevents us from making progress again, one tiny step at a time..

So, let’s cut to the chase today: What we truly need to do is often what we most feel like avoiding. This is a harsh reality, even in our present times.

Because, if we don’t go after what we want, we will never get it. If we don’t ask the right questions, we will always get the wrong answers. If we don’t take a step forward, we are always going to be standing in the same exact place.

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Life is a journey comprised of small steps. The key is to take these steps, every single day, even during harder times that require us to be extra resourceful.

To an extent, we know this already, right?

Yet how often are we stuck in a cycle of worry, fear, and other forms of over-thinking? How often are we aimlessly distracted? And how often do we hide from our problems, or procrastinate?

After consistently working on my mindfulness and time management habits, I’ve become reasonably proficient at getting things done with minimal distraction and procrastination, even while working from home.

Today, for example, I proof-read and cleaned up a chapter in a new book Marc and I are co-writing, coached five of our Getting Back to Happy Course students, responded to comments and emails from dozens of students and readers, worked on business planning and strategizing for a few active projects, spent quality time with my family, and of course now I’m writing the words you’re presently reading.

It might seem like a lot, but it happens one small step at a time, with presence and focus.

With that said, however, I’ll be the first to admit that Marc and I still struggle with some detrimental habits that sneak up on us sometimes and get in the way of our effectiveness (because we’re human). And there is one particular habit we struggle with that’s super common among our friends, family, acquaintances, and students alike—this is something we all do that ends up wasting our lives, one precious moment at a time. The word “waste” may sound overly dramatic, but it’s really not. After spending over a decade coaching hundreds of people, and working through my own personal issues, there’s little doubt that this is one of the most popular ways we all collectively waste our lives:

We waste our lives with a lack of self-discipline.

Self-discipline is a skill. It’s the ability to focus and overcome distractions. It involves acting according to what you know is right instead of how you feel in the moment (perhaps tired or lazy or uneasy). It typically requires sacrificing immediate pleasure and excitement for what matters most in life.

A lack of self-discipline for most of us is often the result of a lack of focus. In other words, we tell ourselves we are going to work on something, but then we don’t. When this happens to me, first and foremost, I forgive myself for messing up, and then I strive to be mindful about what’s really going on. Am I procrastinating for some reason? Am I distracted? Am I taking the easy way out? Instead of telling myself that I’m “bad” or “undisciplined,” I try to productively uncover a more specific, solvable problem, and then address it.

For example, I was feeling kind of down yesterday at lunchtime, so I wrote down a quick list of what was contributing to the funk I was in:

• Didn’t get enough sleep the night before
• Overwhelmed by a combination of family and business obligations
• Hadn’t exercised in a couple days
• Got in a small argument with an inmate.
• Feeling uncertainty and pain about COVID-19 and other current events

So, there were five factors contributing to my funk. And that’s actually quite a few distinct things to be dealing with at once. Initially it felt depressing to think about all the things I needed to focus on in order to feel better and move forward.

Of course, I knew I couldn’t focus on everything at once, so I just started with one tiny step. I meditated for a five minutes.

Then I took another step: I made a list of what I needed to do—I organized my obligations and prioritized them.

Another step: I went for a walk and got my body moving.

Then another step: I sat down with my colleague and I apologized first.

Suddenly, with these tiny steps, I started to feel better.

So, I moved on to the next tiny step and the next.

Then I took a break and spent a some time with my inmate to play with him, and read to him.

I ate a healthy meal.

I reflected on my uncertainty and pain in a positive way, and stayed with my feelings as long as I could, with compassion and openness.

I went to bed early and got a good night’s sleep.

All just one step at a time.

And like I mentioned, I woke up this morning and really hit the ground running, because all of those tiny steps I took yesterday afternoon changed my mood and my trajectory.

The same can be true for you…

Tiny steps, taken one at a time, with presence and focus, can make all the difference in the world.

The concept of taking it one step at a time might seem ridiculously obvious, but when life gets hard we tend to lose our better judgement—we all get caught up in the moment and find ourselves yearning for instant gratification. We want what we want, and we want it now! And this yearning often tricks us into taking on too much too soon. I have seen this transpire hundreds of times over the years: a student wants to achieve a big goal or life change (or multiple big goals or life changes) all at once, and can’t choose just one or two daily rituals to begin focusing on, so nothing worthwhile ever gets done. Let this common mistake—this quick-fix mentality—be your reminder today.

You can’t lift a thousand pounds all at once, yet you can easily lift one pound a thousand times. Small, repeated, incremental efforts will get you closer to what you ultimately want. It doesn’t happen in an instant, but it does happen a lot faster than not getting there at all.

But…

What do you do if your life is in complete disarray?

Seriously! What do you do if your life is in complete disarray, you have hardly any self-discipline or consistent routines, can’t stick to anything, procrastinate constantly, and feel completely out of control right now?

How do you get started with building a healthy ritual of self-discipline when you have so many changes to make?

Again, you start small. Very small.

If you don’t know where to start, let me suggest that you start by simply washing your dishes. Yes, I mean literally washing your dishes. It’s just one small step forward: When you eat your oatmeal, wash your bowl and spoon. When you finish drinking your morning coffee, rinse the coffee pot and your mug. Don’t leave any dirty dishes in the sink or on the counter for later. Wash them immediately.

Form this ritual one dish at a time, one day at a time. Once you do this consistently for a couple weeks, you can start making sure the sink has been wiped clean too. Then the counter. Then put your clothes where they belong when you take them off. Then start doing a few sit-ups every morning. Eat a few vegetables for dinner. And so forth.

Do one of these at a time, and you’ll start to build a healthy ritual of self-discipline, and finally know yourself to be capable of doing what must be done… and finishing what you start.

But, for right now, just wash your dishes. With focus and presence.

That is the path forward.

Mutual agreement

 Ek ne kaha doosre ne maani

Tara rum pum.(Harmony)

United.love.sangam...sargam

Ishara.ll

Bhagwan Hamara Sathi Hai

 Bhagwan Hamara Sathi Hai, Bhagwan Hamara Sathi Hai

Hum unke Sang Sang Rehte Hain.. Vo apne Sang Sang Rehte Hain

Jaise Deepak me Baati hai

Bhagwan Hamara Sathi Hai

1. Khulte hi aankh Hame milte, Har Pal vo sath mere Chalte

    Itna vo pyar Hame Karte, Unki palkon Mein Hum Palte

    Hum Khush Naseeb Unko Paakar. (2)

    Jindgi Hamari Gaati Hai.. Bhagwan Hamara Sathi Hai

2. Kitna Dulaar, Maa ki Mamta, Hum Pyar Pita ka Paate Hain

    Shiksha Dete Raksha Karte, apna Sarvasv Lutaate Hain

    Pyaari murli Pratidin Humko, (2)

    Aati prabhu prem Dikhati HaiBhagwan Hamara Sathi Hai

3. Vo Khuda Dost Hai, Khidmat me, Haazir Hai Hazaar Bhujaon se,

    Apni kismat ke kya Kehne, Sir par hai haath Duaoon ke

    Aisa Saathi Kiska Hoga.. (2)

    Ye soch aankh Bhar aati haiBhagwan Hamara Sathi Hai

Overcoming and changing a situation

 Overcoming and changing a situation

The thoughts we create decide our destiny. Creating the right thoughts when faced with a challenge will not just help us overcome it, but also change the situation. Using this power is emotionally liberating.

The more we think or talk about something, we give energy to it to make it big।

Remind yourself,

I am different  from situation, 

I am different from my mind(thoughts).

I am more powerful than any situation.

I have an impact over outside situations,

Not that They have an impact over me

Become detached from the situation & see it from A distance ,feel yourself more powerful than it,

Relax,calm yourself,empower yourself & you will see everything as passing phase.

Solution to any situation will come from inside only at right time.I am a powerful being.

TRust Yourself.:Try once more

 TRust Yourself.:Try once more 

There are n no. of ways of doing  things.

Adopt new ways

This way ,more experienced we become.

And are able to develop trust in ourselves.

little risk

Yes!!

In doing anything new,if risk would not be there then why would it be called trust.

Our Life is all based on our trust.

Life moves forward,life flows,life progresses when we trust .

Do not fear failure
or slack doing our karma

thinking it to be a waste
or
thinking too much about its outcome.

Your activity ,
your few simple words ,
your positive attitude,
your small little gestures /signals for changing any situation or person

Can create wonders.

So,Always be willing to put in your best wherever we you are.
Karma needs to be done anyways.

No one can escape it
then why not  make self as sensible & take measured intelligent steps,

Learning from our past trials
& trying doing something new this time
for a new favourable outcome of your choice.

 Key lies in:-

Seeing glass half filled,
Looking for solutions.
Looking for beauty/benefit/goodness in all that happens.