Saturday, January 21, 2023

Handling other people's mistakes

 ***How do you handle other people's mistakes?***


The next time you notice someone making mistakes, steer away from being critical. 


If it's appropriate, then offer constructive feedback. Remind yourself that everyone makes mistakes. 


Be more understanding and supportive of others in your attitude and words.

You have a choice.

 




***What are you choosing?***

You know the quote:

"Sow an intention and reap a thought
Sow a thought and reap an action
Sow an action and reap a habit
Sow a habit and reap a DESTINY"

By understanding the process, you realize how the choices you make influence your destiny.

The power lies in the realization, that you have a choice.

Art of getting along well

*** The art of getting along well with others is to create harmony. ***


Expression: To be good to people who are good to us is very easy. But the real beauty of life lies in knowing how to get along well with one and all. That means, I need to know how to empower my interactions so that I am able to get along well even with someone who is not so good to us. Just like notes of music which are different, I need to understand that everyone is different and I need to create beautiful music even in the worst conditions. 


Experience: Today I will see what I can do to get along well with one person whom I wasn't comfortable with. It could be some quality that I need to work on. It could be assertiveness or love or any other quality which will help me get along well with the person.

Ego Destroys Love

 

Ego Destroys Love

The difficulty with ego is that it is deeply concealed. Most of us don’t even know we have it. Ego destroys love. It destroys the ability to learn, so there is no more give and take. No more love. We go through many kinds of situations all day long so we should make sure we don’t stop exchanging love. Ego can be overcome by developing humility. If we don't know how to bow love finishes.

Wisdom

 

Wisdom

The essence of wisdom is using what we know and confessing to what we do not know.

Putting others forward

Your generosity in putting others forward will automatically place you in front.

Contemplation: When you say 'you first' instead of 'I first' you will be placed forward. For having done the selfless service of putting others forward and encouraging them, you will get plenty of blessings. This will take you forward very quickly.

Application: When there is a conflict with someone, become generous. Instead of expecting the other person to understand you and do according to what you want, listen to what he is saying. When you give a chance in this way you will move forward very quickly

Happiness

 

Happiness

I open my eyes to the wonder of being. Delighted in the way things turn out, amazed at the beauty of it all.  I am happy.