Whether it is about telling lies, or about agreeing to your boss. This is a question of your values, principles and power to live by your ethics, and your priorities in life. We cannot say anything regarding this - you will have to make a choice. The more you live by your values, the more powerful and peaceful you will be.
We do not need to be disturbed about others not living by values, we need to live by them।
Any failure that we encounter simply means that we did not get the expected result. When we fail in any domain of our life, it only means that “we have failed”, it does not mean that “we are a failure”. It just means that our action was not right for us, it does not mean we are not right, or we are no good. Let us separate ourselves from the action.
It is something that has happened and cannot be undone, it is the past. Past is Passed.
We now have to focus on the present and the future.
We have two options –
1. Feel guilty about the failure, create pain. This will reduce our inner power and our self confidence. We need both of these to perform well now. So even a single day of pain and guilt is only going to reduce that power which we need the most now.
2. Accept we have not achieved what we expected; now we will do it again. No thoughts of WHY, HOW, WHAT will people say… etc. It is over, now our focus should be – NOW WHAT DO WE HAVE TO DO. Bring our mind only to putting effort now, forget the past as if it never was.
It might come to mind again, but gently change your thought – my attention is only going to be on what I have to do now.
By doing this we will conserve energy and use it to perform well this time.
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It is nice to know that you are benefitting from the programme. When we have low self confidence or low self-esteem we feel inferior and are not comfortable with other people.
We compare ourselves with others based on our outer personalities, and each one of us is different there. We look different, we speak different, we behave differently. Sometimes we like other personalities more than what is ours and we want to become like them.
Many of us forget one of the most important human characteristics – we are each unique human beings, with unique histories, patterns of thinking and personalities. There is no duplication in humanity. One of the deepest habits that we learn is to compare ourselves with others. We forget that we cannot be like, look like, act like any other person. Imitation always ends in failure, especially if we are dependent on being like someone else for how we feel about ourselves. We buy into the belief that if we can successfully imitate others, everything in our life will be OK, and we will at last be happy and successful.
This habit of comparison and imitation is one of the greatest killers of self esteem. It stops us from ever beginning to know ourselves. It keeps us stuck in the world of surfaces as we compare faces, figures and fitness. We don't even realise the beauty we seek is not to be seen with the naked eye but the inner eye. And so the first and most important step in building our self esteem is to break the habit of comparison, and to stop unconsciously trying to be like someone else.
You need to know your true self and also realise your own qualities and strengths. Try and go to the centre and learn Rajyoga Meditation and experience yourself as that pure conscient energy the soul, which is beautiful, powerful and confident. You recognise God and develop a very personal relationship with him. When you start experiencing God as your father, as your best friend - you will have nothing to fear. Your self confidence will rise sharply. You will experience God's company and support at every step. How can God's child feel inferior?? It is because we have forgotten who we are that we feel inferior to others.
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Concentration and focus helps us to achieve much more than what we feel we can. Concentration is basically having the mind and the intellect on the same object.
Mind is our thinking faculty and intellect is the faculty which visualises. For eg. You create a thought - My house (this is the mind) and immediately you will be able to see how your house looks (this is the intellect). What we see then gets imprinted inside. If instead of the house the picture that comes to you is of your college, then the mind starts thinking about the college and we say our concentration has broken. So the mind and intellect should work together. So when you are studying, what ever you are reading try and also visualise it. If the intellect is not busy in visualising what you are reading then the intellect will start seeing other pictures (for eg. friends, movies etc..) and then the mind will also go there and concentration is broken.
Also practicing silence will help greatly. When you sit to study, sit for 5 minutes in silence, and observe your mind. Slowly talk to the mind and ask all the unnecessary thoughts to go away. Give instructions to your mind - you are going to study for how much time, what are you going to study and how much do you want to achieve - tell your mind all this. In between after every hour, stop and be in silence for one minute and again focus your mind. You can do this during the day also.
During the entire day, try and keep your mind light, i.e. not thinking too much, and thinking only the right quality of thoughts. Be aware that the mind is not thinking that which is of no use. Too much thinking reduces the strength of the mind and therefore concentration power. Try and reduce your anger, irritation, worry – all these reduce your power.
Regarding your doubts in your own capability. It is good to concentrate only on the present and perform well. If you worry about the result - you create fear and this effects your performance today and then that might have the impact on your performance. So it is not the competition which will cause any damage but it is your own fear. So just focus on your study and take each day as it comes.
There is no competition with anyone. Each one of is on our own journey. We need to be sincere and put in the best to OUR capacity. We should be honest with ourselves. We cannot perform according to other’s capacity. At every step in life whether in studies or career – we will perform according to our capacity and our values and principles, and so it is our journey. And we will reach when and where only based on our effort. Competing with anyone only means looking at their performance, and using that to scare ourselves. Thoughts of fear reduce our capacity to perform. For eg, in a race – the rule is to focus only yourselves, not look at others in the race, if u look around, u will waste time and energy and create fear.
Practice moments of silence before studying and in between while studying. When u sit in silence, check our thoughts, if there are any thoughts of fear - stop and change them
Your destiny is in your hands. Do not lead your life according to what you are told, lead it according to what you want it to be. If you believe what you have been told, those will be your thoughts and hence your destiny. So create your own belief and that will become your destiny.
Experimenting with the above cycle we understand that our thoughts determine our destiny, which means we are the creators of our destiny. The source of our thoughts is –
1. Past experiences
2. Information
3. Belief Systems
Based on the above it means that information influences thoughts which determines destiny, whereby we understand why predictions come true. Prediction is information and therefore influences destiny. Astrology is science, and predictions are based on calculations, but these will affect those who allow external factors – planetary movements, situations, other’s behaviours to influence their state of mind. But for those who work on their thought process, are aware of themselves being the creator of every thought – their thoughts and hence destiny is no longer influenced by external factors, they create a destiny of their choice.
An astrological prediction is a possibility not the 100% truth. Its like a doctor telling me that based on genetic factors and my present body parameters there is a possibility that I may have diabetes in the near future. Now if I take this information, get worried and start believing that this is what is to happen, then very soon I will be a victim of diabetes. But if I take it up as a challenge – change my lifestyle and my thought patterns – I would probably never have diabetes in this lifetime, and hence I did not let the prediction become a reality. So it is not about what has been predicted, it is about taking care of oneself and creating a life one wishes to experience.
Keep Aim..One task at a time..
🍎silence bal,
🍊antarmukhta ka bal..
🍑shaktiyaan Jama..
🍒leckage band.
🍇Experiment it's power at least once.
🫒Accumulate shudh vichar from murli & classes.
🥑Do things in a different way each day.
🥥Experiment with different points & experience inner change(smriti se stithi)that experience in your diary.
🍉Being in this world,
🍭see one father listen to one father,talk to one father.
🍩This world 's scenes should have no impact on my mind.Ekras.Ninda stuti,Maan apman ,such dukh eksamaan.Practise.
🍓Have no expectations from this world rather see everyone as
🥨shudh aatma sometimes,
🫑sometimes as bechara,
🥕sometimes through their visheshta,
🥦some times as weak one whom I need to empower through my yogyukt stage & karma.
Accumulate points on each topic separately..
🫐Rahem dil,shubh bhavna
🍎Aatmic drishti
🍈Nyarayan
🍒Variety souls,variety parts..understanding
🫒Nirdosh drishti.sab right Hai,sab achhe Hai.
🥒Shama bhav for mistakes
🥬Sudharne ki ummeed..baba Baitha Hai.
🍍Helping others to transform through own transformation,
🍅remaining unaffected by anyones acts,becoming emotionally independent, self care,self empowerment & then creating yuktis for small little life's lessons for others.
🥭Vishesh purushartha on sweet talking, and positive pure elevated thinking.
🍉Learning from murli ..ways to handle different situations, transforming anything waste to best, changing attitude/outlook towards repetitive life's situations ..
.🍵sometimes laughing away (nothing new,passed many times such things,what a big deal,doesn't matter,everyday's drama,aadat Hai inki,mera kya jata,my role is special,wah re main),
🍚sometimes jumping over the stone(not spending time breaking the stone like issue by hammering it by your weak thoughts ),
🍹sometimes seeing it às water bubble(game,enjoy)
.🍿sometimes às paper tiger(fearless).
🫖sometimes as a mountain turning to raai then rui.(bad baat ko chhota),
🧋Sometimes as sitting on the seat of detached observer & enjoying the micky mouse show..just now laughing just now crying,just now jumping,just now confused..many games.
🧉Sometimes as Knowing everything ahead of time & enjoy see it happening.(No wonder or ashcharya,as expected,we are ready for everything, father is with me)
🥣Changing mood,enjoying life's music(someone saying one ,someone another).mould self for every occasion happening around,harmonizing with all the musics around & continuously listening our own inner music,what baba is saying..anhad naad.
🥤Dancing to life's tunes,different poses,different steps,different moves balancing physical & emotional health of body.
🍯Become completely aware of various body systems..breathing patterns,BP,brain's cognitive health(learning & memory),Effect of my thoughts on body.Energy centers & Chakra balancing.
🧁How many steps I need to take during a day.when to stop,when to keep going,How to order different activities of the day,How to make a choice on what is most important now.How to fix a schedule & different practices for the day,remaining determined with the schedule & make appropriate responses in real time life's situations by being flexible too.
🍫Give time on thinking what happens within & outside.The reason,the solution,the medicine,the winning mantra,the fighting tool,the solution(key) to various locks & blockages.
Check whether Free flow happening..change self for any Another correction..Ninda stuti ek saamaan*
