Take help the right way.Give the other person the much deserved respect.
Don't boast of the options .We don't need you anymore.We have many options.If others are just an option for you,that clearly shows you never had any love for them.
Even if you have many options,Remain loving and faithful anyway.Show a high character and faithful intellect.
Don't look down upon anyone when you become something.
Becoming something means Becoming Merciful and developing a virtue of responsibility to take upon some duty and take care of others bringing them benefit.