Comfort others

Comfort others by a heart that listens & the hand that supports.Give this immediate comfort to all whom you come in contact with & earn instant reward of contributing to creating to virtuous atmosphere on the planet.

Avoid self praise

Praise is a good motivating factor but only when it comes at the right moment with the right method from outside.Otherwise it increases the ego & we loose humility to recognise other's qualities &  respect them for that.

we even miss to see our areas of weaknesses & improvements if we are always busy praising self.

Check & Regulate Information

Before pouring in knowledge or information on someone about something .

Stop & Check.

Is it necessary for them?.

Is it useful for them.?

It it going to benefit them in anyway.?

Scan,filter & process the information for its relevance before sharing.

Talk useful

Words are power,Words are energy.Words are a means of destiny.

Choose your words right.

Sense the vibration/frequency/mood of the other person & talk slowly,wisely & gently.

Understand the need of the hour.

Listen carefully & talk only useful & relevant.

Speak essenceful.Be in the moment,Clear your mind.Drop too much detailing & skip Sharing all at once.

Avoid repetition

Your mistake or my mistake.

Your habit or my habit.

I am not giving energy & attention to it & grow it.

Repeatedly talking about some situation increases it's chances/likelihood for its occurence again.

What I see,think & speak ,I become that.

Change your focus,Shift your focus to your strength & you will grow your strengths.

Before pointing at a flaw

Before pointing at a flaw. Accept the person as it is .

You are good.

You are right,

It's ok .

Spot out qualities.Bring them into your awareness.Change your feelings for the person.Give a lot of respect ,

Fill in courage in them & tell them gently their area of improvement .Empower them like this & they will definitely Work upon it.

Being in power

• Being in power means I have to give rights to others.Right to be the way they are.
• Being in power, means creating laws that would let self and others grow  as a human being(spiritually & intectually)
• Being in power means to be responsible enough to teach others through example rather than words.To give them rights to express.
• Being in Power means speaking &  listening equally.
• Being in Power means to give others freedom  & empowering them in the process,letting them learn & grow . Support them silently .
• Being in power means sustaining in silence ..
• Being in power means Increasing others self respect by making them self sufficient.
• Being in power means to do everything that Builds bridge between all,increase Mutual trust & create Win win situation for all.
• Being in power means keeping a Higher vision for others.
• Being in power means creating a feeling of Belongingness  & care towards others.

Thankyou.

Om shanti