Children need to be understood।

From the very young age we start scolding children for their little mistakes. We dictate them right and wrong straightway, We impose our ways on them. We don't have time to answer their questions,teach them,change them with love. We don't tell them the reason "why".We don't spend time with them listening to their hearts and fill them with love. Infact mistakes and their correction need love not scolding and for sure not beatings. We can teach them the right ways by doing things ourselves,setting an example and inspiring them to do the right. In our anger, hurries, worries and desires.In our own quarrels and frustrations from life,we crush their childhood and our own and their healthy growth. We don't tell them motivational stories ,spend time with them in order to make them powerful. We don't pay attention to how they are growing inside.We simply give them food, clothing,shelter, Education but we don't talk to them to empower them and clear their mind...