Friday, June 30, 2023

Can we Pay back.


Do we use mistakes & weaknesses of others for our fun & selfish pride. 

A way to show ourselves better or great..

Do we realise the harm we are causing to other soul's self esteem.

Is our wisdom or power for this purpose.

Exploit innocent one's. 

Can we pay back the self respect the soul has earned through its actions over a long period of time.

When children are caught up doing mistakes

When children are caught doing mistakes, or going on wrong path. 

Do we judge them, scold them, victimise them

Or do we love them, accept them, empower them, educate them.Do we have that much power. That much patience. 

Or do we take up an easy way.. Just Slap, speak wrong words, put up labels on them. 

If we see anyone weak, do we try to know the probable reason behind it & fill in the power & strength in them & make them powerful. 

Do we go back to our own childhood & youthful days & see what were our dreams & desires at those times & how we wished to fulfill those. 

Did we like roaming around, decorating ourselves, making friends &,move around in pure pride & do whatever feels right.

Even bunking the class, going for a movie or party.


If children try to share their concerns, do we have a listening ear or we simply reject them by saying this is all useless. You are thinking a lot.

Go & concentrate on your studies.

When you become something, everything will be finished. You will become happy then.

But what about now what i am feeling now.

Fear, anxiety, guilt, resentment, inferiority. 

All my friends have loving parents, caring parents who give them their time & attention. They bring them gifts, take them out for picnic & recreation. They occasionally praise them, appreciate them & love them.They tell them their qualities & help them develop their skills. 

They guide them, protect them, caution them at every step. 

They don't judge or scold them. They empathize with them & reach them through examples. 

They lighten their children with their sweet words, loveful words, respectful words. 

Their words give them courage, make them brave., fill in enthusiasm in them.Make them feel worthy. different from crowd. One in a million.

They would cover their mistakes & create heaven out of it. 




Formation of Belief systems


Children grows.

Children are curious

They see around,They observe. They don't know right, wrongs

They experiment, They try. 

They form beliefs. 

They are conditioned. 

The one who has more money is rich. 

The one who has more things is prosperous.

The one who has many people around them are loved and cared. 

The one who travels around is happier. 

The one who parties every now & then has many reasons to enjoy. 

The one who gets more marks is intelligent. 

The one who are working in big companies are big people. 

The one speaks, sings & dances well is appreciated, praised, accepted & loved by all. 

The one who wears new dresses,, have new things everyday are lucky ones. 

To win, other has to loose. 

There is a competition and race at every step. 

There is a lack, only the one who gets lucky will get the things & the chance. 

If I give away my things, I will experience lack. Let me hide them. 

If anyone sees it, they will ask for it.&,then I have to tell them. 

I have my work schedules & timetable. I can't spare time for listening to others or attending others. I am very busy. 

It is my special day, everyone should give importance & attention to me only. 

It's my turn now, I will get what I have been longing for so long. 








Thursday, June 29, 2023

Ant philosophy

 


"You true effort maker" Go, to the ant  consider its ways and be wise. 

It has no commander, no overseer or ruler yet it stores its provisions in summer and gather its food at harvest. 

"How long will you lie there, when will you get up from your sleep a little sleep, a little slumber a little folding of the hands to rest and poverty will come on you like a bandit and scarcity like an armed Man"

Here's the five philosophies that we can learn from Ants.

1)Ants have no commander ants don't need a

commandert to tell them to get started they work faithfully and need no outside accountability to keep them doing right and doing the right things .

2)They work hard and will replace their anthill when it gets ruined meaning if you want to apply this in your real life. 

Be proactive be honest to yourself and be industrious 

3)Ants plan ahead.Ants think winter all summer long they store provision in summer they think the clock is running out of time and they are hurrying to get food back to their hive, meaning they hustle hard in advance to secure their future.

Ants stay positive always ants remind themselves that winter does not last long they know they'll soon be out meaning whatever happens in your life right now, it will not last forever. 

4)Ants never quit they only change their approach if they're going somewhere and you stop them or block their pathway, they'll look for another way up down all around, they keep looking till they find another way, meaning be learned to embrace struggle and hardship in your life. 

5)Be flexible and be like ants who don't quit

Winners are not quitters. 

Ants always do their best meaning give your best in everything you do right now it will always lead you to the greater things and the next level in your life. 

Eagle mentality

 


Don't be a parrot in life,a parrot talks way too much but can't fly high but an eagle is silent and has the willpower to touch the sky.

Here's the seven mentalities that we can
learn from an eagle:-


1)Eagles fly alone at high altitude eagles don't fly with sparrows ravens and other small birds
meaning stay away from narrow-minded people
those that bring you down
Eagles fly with eagles there's a saying
that goes like this people you hang around will eventually determine the person you become Keep good company.

2)Eagles have vision
They have the ability to focus on something as far as five kilometers away no matter what the
obstacles are,the eagle will not move his focus from the prey until he grabs it meaning we should have a vision and remain focused in our lives no matter what the obstacles and challenges we may face but don't give up and you will succeed

3)Eagles are fearless
An eagle will never surrender to the
size or strength of its prey,it will always give a fight to win its prey or regain its territory meaning no matter what the size or big your
problems are,don't give up instead face it.
Successful people are fearless they face the
problems head on.

4)Eagles are tenacious
Eagles love storm when clouds gather,
the eagles get excited.  Eagles use
the storm wind to lift themselves higher once it finds the wind of a storm. 

Eagles use the raging storm to lift
itself above the clouds.

In the meantime all the other birds hide in the branches and leaves of the tree, eagle uses the opportunity to glide and rest its wings .

Meaning achievers are not afraid of challenges rather they relish in them and use them for profitability.

5)Eagles never eat dead things
Eagles never eat dead meat, in other
words an eagle does not scavenge it only eats
the meat from the prey it kills itself
meaning do not rely on your past success but
keep looking for new frontiers to
conquer, leave your past and always go ahead.


6) Eagles prepare for training


They remove the feather in the soft
grass and the nest so that the young
ones get uncomfortable in preparation
for flying and eventually they fly when it becomes too unbearable to stay in the nest
Which means leave your comfort zone,
there is no growth there. 


7) Eagles possess vitality
When the eagle grows old his feathers
become weak and cannot take him as
fast and as high as it should be.This makes him weak and can make him die so he retires to a place far away in the mountains and while there he plucks out the weak feathers in his body and breaks his beak and his claws against the rocks until he is completely bare,a very bloody and painful process then he stays in his hiding place until he has grown new feathers,new beaks and claws and then comes out flying higher than ever before meaning we occasionally need to shed off old HABITS no matter how difficult things may be. THose old habits burden us and add NO value to our lives, therefore they should be let go of. 

Reference 

<https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XLPqy2oO-Eg>

Sunday, June 11, 2023

God's company


You are walking under God's canopy,you are never alone.You are safe.

You have God's love,God's support.You are powerful.

You have God's strength in you.You are an image of support to world.

You have God's blessings with you.You are Successful.

You have God's qualities in you.You are a gift to the world.

You have god as your friend.Whole world is a friend to you.

You are in the God's company,the highest company that colors you soul in the colors of imperishable love & happiness.

Monday, June 5, 2023

Try and succeed

 


Follow your heart

 






Triple filter test


 

What we think,we are


 

Happy chemicals


 

Stage of Mind


 

Do your best


 

Reality to be experienced


 

Truths


 

Life Mantras

 

It doesn't  matter how slowly you go as long as you are always  on move

Rise ।।।glory

Simple

Beauty

Virtue


Positive thinking strategies

picture perfect
Silver lining 
Good thinking
Glass half full

 

Talk to yourself

 


Growth mindset


 

Superior person

 A Superior person thinks of virtue not comfort