Conversation Rules.

 

• Listen to understand (not answer),
• Listen without any preconceived notion.(wall).,prior impression/judgement.
• Come in contact without any aim(object),motive,welcome the other person first .Greet them well first.
• First have respect for the other person for their time /energy.
• For a good conversation,Let the conversation be Freely flowing.Become free from any attachment to result or be time concious repeatedly,enjoy the  sharing & learning something new in the process.
• Give space for the person to think & process & answer after you say something.
• Be kind & compassionate towards the needs of others.Ligthen them.Make them comfortable to able to express right.Don't try to judge anyone immediately.There can several reasons be there for the other one not to answer & remaining silent.(may be saving your respect or may be waiting for right time to answer or may be waiting for other factors to settle down).Becoming detached,Smiling & Silence is the best answer many a times.
• Do not see people with labels because that will color your vision & love will stop flowing.Connection would not occur & understanding will not happen & opinions will differ
• Knowledge is what to say ,wisdom is when to say.
• Do not aim to know everything.Whatever piece of knowledge is available at this time is enough for me now.Things will start unfolding at their right time.

Thankyou.

Om shanti

Strong Managers

 Work Life 

Right mindset

Open ness,

Learning attitude 

Adaptibility

Moulding nature

Regard 

Newness

Out of बॉक्स

सर्कल of possibilities 

Check & change,

Concentration & focus।

Stand

Truth & Honesty

Comfortable & easy atmosphere for all

Productive

Efficient

United

Powerful system,,formalising

Timelines

Policies,strategies, laws,confidentialities

ट्रांसपेरेंसी,Integrity, commitment

Feedback & Report 

Productive

Farsightedness

Target

Faith in system

Hardwork,शार्प work

Regulation of इंफो, filter(मीडिया etc)

No anger,no gossip zone

Discipline,language,,,sweet positive  transformative,appreciative

Truth civilized।।।seeing time ,& person

Create time

Despite distractions 

Go for the goal

Peak & tough times

Education system( then vs now)

 

Ancient gurukul system better than modern education system.

The Gurukul system of education was the primary education system in ancient India. In the Gurukul system of education, students went to the teachers house and request them to teach. If guru accepts the students as the shishya. Then the students stayed at the Guru's place itself. And Guru mentored them in all their activities. The advantage of this system was that it created a very good bond between the teacher and his students. Students also learned how to run a family and gain insights on how to deal with society. The current education system and the teachings that are provided today are very different from the ones in the ancient Gurukul system. The global system of education was widely followed in ancient India, and the country was not lesser than the other nations. In fact, India was the one which gave the world zero and it was Indians who first quoted that Earth was round and shape. There was also a mentioned in ancient literature about the demand which we today known as the aircraft. In fact, the Indian system of medicines was also very highly developed, and they had known surgery techniques where they could do surgery. This was the system of education prevalent in India around 5000 BC, during the Vedic age. When values of living a culture life and discipline were given higher priority. This system was widely practised. The home of the guru or the teacher was referred to as the Gurukul. And the student recite that until they completed their education.

 equality for all the students was a major priority for the Gurukul and both the shishayas and the gurus recited at the same place, which created a stronger bonding. The relationship between the students and the teachers was really sacred, and no fees was even charged by the gurus. Instead of fees student paid the respect in the form of Guru Dakshina as the remark for thankfulness to the teacher. The Gurukul system of education emphasised on the all round development of the students. Unlike today, there was a sacred time when teachers were considered as next to God and were given immense respect. In order to keep the students closer to nature. Mostly, the classrooms were also located in the forest areas. Practical science was also given due importance, however, then it was not about securing good marks, but about learning the best. The concept of homework was also not present. And this helped the students in focusing more on their learning skills. Also, unlike the modern days, the craziness for rands did not exist. The Gurukul system taught students about ethics and practical values. practical teaching were given greater importance as compared to the theoretical concepts which dominate today. The aim was to inculcate, identify and nurture individual skills and not a rat race towards good scores. The art of living was taught to the students and in return for these great teachings, student paid the teachers the good reduction, this great system of education unfortunately, vanished in India. After 1835. This was replaced by the modern system of education by Lord McAnally to make the education system more uniform. However, the modern education system is more of a rat race, where the crucial teachings of personality morale consciousness building and ethical training are completely missing, rather than holistic training that must be offered to the students. The institutional concept is majorly commercialised. Nowadays, important skills including physical training are either missing or are given very less importance, which hampers the overall development of the students. Overall, the major ideology behind the ancient Gurukul system was to emphasise the importance of the overall development of the student that can help them in leading a balanced life. These important aspects of life must be taught to the students from a very young age itself. This would help them in making uniform and better decisions on their lifestyle, work routine, and overall matters in life.

Life is...

Life is Miracle.(unlimited)(possibilities)

Life is in moments(great time)

Life is Wisdom(cooking,cleaning,walking, talking,seeing)doing ordinary things in extraordinary ways 

Master is Driving.  (Interview,test)

Life style change.  (Detachment from I & mine)

Life is Acceptance for deciding to change.

Life is Interconnectedness(oneness).(ek ka show,ek ki praise,ek se connect)

Life is surrender(ego,weaknesses)

Life is  to be forever .(Be constant)

Health

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Give unconditionally

 

Change your way looking at things

 

Change your way looking at things and things will change.

God is your companion

For going into the Service field.Don't fear.
You have nothing to loose,nothing is new for you,You have done it several times.

Everything can be learnt.

Give attention,observe.

God is your teacher.

Reliable connection

 

The more I share my spiritual treasures ,the more they multiply.

With an awareness of soul consciousness & world as one Big Godly family

I develop the virtues of Kindness & Mercy in me & able to share freely the treasures within me & come closer to my real self & hence become God realised.

Become simple & sample.

 Become simple & sample.

You need to be present at your field of action & remain in your higher stage in your thoughts,words & deeds & set an example of divinity in action.

Listen to everything,Harmonise with everyone,guide & help others,

Give directions where necessary.

Give solutions where required.Manage resources.

All with your power of purity & power of silence with your Ruling /controlling power over your subtle energies of Mind/Intellect & sanskars.

Determination is the key to success.

Become RoleModel for all & lead by example.

Becoming your best Version

 As you reach your higher self,you feel what you were seeking was already within you.you don't have to ask for,search for or even think for your completeness.You are already complete.,you don't need anything from outside,you already have everything ,you just have to see it,use it, appreciate it.Develop that sense of appreciation & gratitude in your attitude & every action.

Achieving & always moving forward (doing)will bind you into an illusion /ego of body consciousness of being at the top, which will further take you away from your original self(soul consciousness).

What we need to realise is that we are unique ,we are special,life is a journey & I am a soul.I don't have to run fast,reach a place, acquire titles,get people around.

We are in no competition/race with anyone.I don't have to become like something or someone.

I just have to be myself,just be what I am.I am already beautiful,I am already fulfilled.I am already perfect in my own imperfections.

Anything from outside will further bind you into deception of being at & make you dependable & increase your ego of body consciousness.

That doesn't mean we will not move forward or achieve .We will achieve but while living awakened  balancing our inner & outer worlds becoming our best version.

Thank you.

Love & Light♥️

Success code

 

Crack the success code

Success

s is one thing which every person belonging to any age group aspires to.

But not all people do achieve the same. Does a successful person have a *KEY*?

Answer is - fixation of *GOALS & DISCIPLINES*.

👉 SKILLS are the need of the hour but at the same time SPIRITUAL SKILLS are very important.

👉 In challenging situations, the most common negative experience is of being *fearful*.

👉 *The success code is PAUSE*

— P is for attaining POWER & PEACE... learn the skills.

— A is for ATTENTION

— U is for Use self control, self awareness and discipline your mind.

— S is for setting a *schedule* with consistency and determination.

*SEE* yourself as an achiever of your GOAL.

— E is to ENERGISE yourself.

Understand the BEING. Spiritual energy in light form (SELF) is you.

Understand the true meaning of success- Soul needs success not the body.

The soul who understands the trick of being stable in all scenes of victory and failure is said to be successful. Such souls go beyond the bondage of temporary scenes and appreciate the wonders of life at large , knowing that each scene is designed for their benefit.

And I have to show highest code of conduct(standards )at all times(challenging times).

Face everything with dignity & give the Balanced response always.

Think you are unique and NEVER COMPARE.

• A water creature fish cannot be compared to a flying bird.
• A sun can not be compared to a moon.Both shine at their own times.

Life is a dance.

Life is a dance,let's celebrate this joy of living

Impossible  is nothing ...

Fear none.

Live full.

Solution  to every thing.work towards it.

Learn to say ..It's OK  & enjoy gifts of life that you already have.

Let's laugh away at our small childish habits.

Let's laugh away at our small reactions,little doubts,petty fears.

Let's go beyond all such matters & there will never be a day of sorrow in your life 

Let's equally be happy in failure as in success.

Let's Fill in ourself such positivity that we don't miss even a single moment of life for living full.

There is this season of joy,celebration,don't miss it!!

Live for others

 Live for others.

Just keep moving in ..we are spiritual beings on human journey .

You never know whom you are gonna meet next

A new friend,a counselor,a guide.

World is a family.You share one or the other similarity with each other with which you connect .Everyone has a story to share.

A loving smile ,an open heart & your availability (listening  ear)help someone feel light & accepted.

Everyone has something to say,give your few minutes,your shoulder to them & feel another level of  energy in you.

What you are seeking is actually seeking you.

You asked for this change ,this meeting,this sharing from God in your silent conversation with him & you are getting it now.

Fill life with such beautiful moments & you will never regret haven't lived full.

It doesn't matter how many years you had life.

What matters is how many moments you actually lived.

Collect these special moments of life where you consciously  lived for others  & feel proud of your living.So that the whole universe says  when you are going to leave the body....Well lived!!once more!

Yunhi chal chal rahi..

Life is a car...time is a wheel.

New people,new conversations. 

Door wo jane kiska gaon hai...

Free yourself ...Celebrate living..

 Kholo kholo darvaje parde karo किनारे 

Free self from everything that is binding you.

Kite

Let's decorate sky

If you hv thirst,there is rain

No one stopping

You are sunshine...

You are river..flow

Flow somewhere,fly somewhere 

Heart happy...destination 

A path is formed by walking.

We waste our time waiting for a path to appear. But it never does. Because we forget that paths are made by walking, not waiting. And we forget that there’s absolutely nothing about our present circumstances that prevents us from making progress again, one tiny step at a time..

So, let’s cut to the chase today: What we truly need to do is often what we most feel like avoiding. This is a harsh reality, even in our present times.

Because, if we don’t go after what we want, we will never get it. If we don’t ask the right questions, we will always get the wrong answers. If we don’t take a step forward, we are always going to be standing in the same exact place.

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Life is a journey comprised of small steps. The key is to take these steps, every single day, even during harder times that require us to be extra resourceful.

To an extent, we know this already, right?

Yet how often are we stuck in a cycle of worry, fear, and other forms of over-thinking? How often are we aimlessly distracted? And how often do we hide from our problems, or procrastinate?

After consistently working on my mindfulness and time management habits, I’ve become reasonably proficient at getting things done with minimal distraction and procrastination, even while working from home.

Today, for example, I proof-read and cleaned up a chapter in a new book Marc and I are co-writing, coached five of our Getting Back to Happy Course students, responded to comments and emails from dozens of students and readers, worked on business planning and strategizing for a few active projects, spent quality time with my family, and of course now I’m writing the words you’re presently reading.

It might seem like a lot, but it happens one small step at a time, with presence and focus.

With that said, however, I’ll be the first to admit that Marc and I still struggle with some detrimental habits that sneak up on us sometimes and get in the way of our effectiveness (because we’re human). And there is one particular habit we struggle with that’s super common among our friends, family, acquaintances, and students alike—this is something we all do that ends up wasting our lives, one precious moment at a time. The word “waste” may sound overly dramatic, but it’s really not. After spending over a decade coaching hundreds of people, and working through my own personal issues, there’s little doubt that this is one of the most popular ways we all collectively waste our lives:

We waste our lives with a lack of self-discipline.

Self-discipline is a skill. It’s the ability to focus and overcome distractions. It involves acting according to what you know is right instead of how you feel in the moment (perhaps tired or lazy or uneasy). It typically requires sacrificing immediate pleasure and excitement for what matters most in life.

A lack of self-discipline for most of us is often the result of a lack of focus. In other words, we tell ourselves we are going to work on something, but then we don’t. When this happens to me, first and foremost, I forgive myself for messing up, and then I strive to be mindful about what’s really going on. Am I procrastinating for some reason? Am I distracted? Am I taking the easy way out? Instead of telling myself that I’m “bad” or “undisciplined,” I try to productively uncover a more specific, solvable problem, and then address it.

For example, I was feeling kind of down yesterday at lunchtime, so I wrote down a quick list of what was contributing to the funk I was in:

• Didn’t get enough sleep the night before
• Overwhelmed by a combination of family and business obligations
• Hadn’t exercised in a couple days
• Got in a small argument with an inmate.
• Feeling uncertainty and pain about COVID-19 and other current events

So, there were five factors contributing to my funk. And that’s actually quite a few distinct things to be dealing with at once. Initially it felt depressing to think about all the things I needed to focus on in order to feel better and move forward.

Of course, I knew I couldn’t focus on everything at once, so I just started with one tiny step. I meditated for a five minutes.

Then I took another step: I made a list of what I needed to do—I organized my obligations and prioritized them.

Another step: I went for a walk and got my body moving.

Then another step: I sat down with my colleague and I apologized first.

Suddenly, with these tiny steps, I started to feel better.

So, I moved on to the next tiny step and the next.

Then I took a break and spent a some time with my inmate to play with him, and read to him.

I ate a healthy meal.

I reflected on my uncertainty and pain in a positive way, and stayed with my feelings as long as I could, with compassion and openness.

I went to bed early and got a good night’s sleep.

All just one step at a time.

And like I mentioned, I woke up this morning and really hit the ground running, because all of those tiny steps I took yesterday afternoon changed my mood and my trajectory.

The same can be true for you…

Tiny steps, taken one at a time, with presence and focus, can make all the difference in the world.

The concept of taking it one step at a time might seem ridiculously obvious, but when life gets hard we tend to lose our better judgement—we all get caught up in the moment and find ourselves yearning for instant gratification. We want what we want, and we want it now! And this yearning often tricks us into taking on too much too soon. I have seen this transpire hundreds of times over the years: a student wants to achieve a big goal or life change (or multiple big goals or life changes) all at once, and can’t choose just one or two daily rituals to begin focusing on, so nothing worthwhile ever gets done. Let this common mistake—this quick-fix mentality—be your reminder today.

You can’t lift a thousand pounds all at once, yet you can easily lift one pound a thousand times. Small, repeated, incremental efforts will get you closer to what you ultimately want. It doesn’t happen in an instant, but it does happen a lot faster than not getting there at all.

But…

What do you do if your life is in complete disarray?

Seriously! What do you do if your life is in complete disarray, you have hardly any self-discipline or consistent routines, can’t stick to anything, procrastinate constantly, and feel completely out of control right now?

How do you get started with building a healthy ritual of self-discipline when you have so many changes to make?

Again, you start small. Very small.

If you don’t know where to start, let me suggest that you start by simply washing your dishes. Yes, I mean literally washing your dishes. It’s just one small step forward: When you eat your oatmeal, wash your bowl and spoon. When you finish drinking your morning coffee, rinse the coffee pot and your mug. Don’t leave any dirty dishes in the sink or on the counter for later. Wash them immediately.

Form this ritual one dish at a time, one day at a time. Once you do this consistently for a couple weeks, you can start making sure the sink has been wiped clean too. Then the counter. Then put your clothes where they belong when you take them off. Then start doing a few sit-ups every morning. Eat a few vegetables for dinner. And so forth.

Do one of these at a time, and you’ll start to build a healthy ritual of self-discipline, and finally know yourself to be capable of doing what must be done… and finishing what you start.

But, for right now, just wash your dishes. With focus and presence.

That is the path forward.

Mutual agreement

 Ek ne kaha doosre ne maani

Tara rum pum.(Harmony)

United.love.sangam...sargam

Ishara.ll