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Our expectations from others

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  Our expectations from others Expectation means predicting the future behaviour of others.  Letting our happiness be dependent on their behaviour and then feeling let down if they do not behave as we had predicted. People around us will behave and work according to their capacity, we can share with them what we feel is right, but cannot expect that they will always do it our way. When we do something for others, we do it according to our values and capacity. To expect the same from others is unfair to them. We need to understand they will behave only according to their capacity. Let us not give up our qualities because others did not respond the way we expected. Expectations can however be put to a powerful use.  To expect the best of someone is to have a vision of them performing at their best.  To create that vision is to transmit that vision to them which is a form of empowering them with the energy of encouragement.  And the same applies to our self.  ...

Expectations of others from us

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  Expectations of others from us If people have expectations from us - we need to understand we cannot fulfill all of them. We need to be comfortable with what we are doing. If someone expects us to do something - we do it for their happiness - that still means we are doing it for ourselves (because their happiness matters to us) - not for them. We need to make it our own and do it for ourselves because then we will be ready to take personal responsibility. If we cannot do it - we need to convey it with the right energy - that we do not mean to offend, but it is not possible for us.

TRUSTING

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  TRUSTING Is nice to know that you are genuinely trying to implement whatever you are learning. Trust is a value which is to be understood and implemented properly.    When you say people are not worth, it becomes a little unfair.  Each one is essentially a pure soul, and this is not something to know, but to practice. Trusting becomes easy when we understand deeply that each one is that pure energy, irrespective of their behaviour now. Who are we to decide who is worthy and who is not. If people are like what we think they should be then they are worthy and if they are not then we feel they are not worthy. People are what they are, we have to decide what we want to feel about them.     We need to understand what trust means - it first means to actually trust that each one is that pure conscient energy. To accept that what they are saying is what they mean. That does not mean that we need to trust them with our lives or put anything that we have at st...

HAPPINESS

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  HAPPINESS Happiness is an inner feeling. It is an energy which gets created by the power of our thoughts. It is not something physical and hence cannot be attained by anything physical. Happiness is in our control and not dependent on any person or object. One can be be happy with very little materialistic comforts and one can be unhappy even if he has everything. There is no connection between the two.    But at the same time we need to take care of the materialistic comforts of our family members. You are responsible for looking after the needs of your family.  You need to evaluate what is the reason you have not worked in one place for long, is it because you didn't enjoy the work or was it difficulty in getting along with the people there. Find out the reason and then you can start working on the solution. You seem to be disinterested in life, you will have to bring back that enthusiasm in yourself again.    Life is what we want to make it. Take out s...

Overcoming Fear

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  FEAR Fear is often referred to as False Experience Appearing Real – which means we misuse our faculty of imagination to ‘imagine’ some future loss and then give it the status of present reality.  It may be loss of an object, loss of health, loss of a comfort zone, loss of anything.  It’s simply worry.  So instead of creating images of the worst possible outcome (loss) we can turn our thinking, our ‘imaging’ around, and visualise the best, the positive, the anastrophe and not the catastrophe.  But don’t make it a desire, don’t get attached to your vision.  Just create it, let it go, and return to live in the present moment. Rajyoga Meditation enables us to overcome all our fears and live life powerfully.

QUICK DECISION-MAKING POWER

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  QUICK DECISION-MAKING POWER Quick and right decisions can be taken by a silent mind. A silent mind is one which is positive. Negative thoughts are too many in number and therefore create a confusion, and then even if the solution is clearly in front of you, you will not be able to see it. When we develop the habit of creating positive thoughts, then only the right kind of thoughts emerge and taking decisions is very easy. When the mind is silent, we do not have to think very logically, the right solution emerges from the intution and it is a solution which we would have never thought of logically.  

Positive Thinking

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  POSITIVE THINKING  Positive thinking is developed with constant attention and practice. Through out the day, stop in between for a minute and watch what is going on in your mind, if it is not the right kind of thought- stop and change it. Start talking to your mind gently, guide it and it will listen to you. Whenever any unnecessary or waste thought comes - tell your mind this is not useful for you or for your relationships and change it. Try and look at your mind for at least 1 minute in every hour. In the morning when u begin the day sit in silence for 5 minutes and programme your mind with positive thoughts. for eg:  1. I will remain peaceful today irrespective of whatever happens today. Anger will not come to me. 2. Who ever I meet I will only look at their qualities, not weaknesses. I will not criticise anyone.   3. I am powerful, I can do what ever I decide to do..... When your thoughts are positive concentration is higher, and hence your memory will improve....

Ethics

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  ETHICS Whether it is about telling lies, or about agreeing to your boss. This is a question of your values, principles and power to live by your ethics, and your priorities in life. We cannot say anything regarding this - you will have to make a choice. The more you live by your values, the more powerful and peaceful you will be. We do not need to be disturbed about others not living by values, we need to live by them।

Failure in EXAMINATIONS

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  FAILURE IN EXAMINATIONS Any failure that we encounter simply means that we did not get the expected result. When we fail in any domain of our life, it only means that “we have failed”, it does not mean that “we are a failure”. It just means that our action was not right for us, it does not mean we are not right, or we are no good. Let us separate ourselves from the action. It is something that has happened and cannot be undone, it is the past. Past is Passed. We now have to focus on the present and the future. We have two options – 1. Feel guilty about the failure, create pain. This will reduce our inner power and our self confidence. We need both of these to perform well now. So even a single day of pain and guilt is only going to reduce that power which we need the most now.  2. Accept we have not achieved what we expected; now we will do it again. No thoughts of WHY, HOW, WHAT will people say… etc. It is over, now our focus should be – NOW WHAT DO WE HAVE TO DO. Bring our...

Inferiority complex

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  -INFERIORITY COMPLEX It is nice to know that you are benefitting from the programme. When we have low self confidence or low self-esteem we feel inferior and are not comfortable with other people.    We compare ourselves with others based on our outer personalities, and each one of us is different there. We look different, we speak different, we behave differently. Sometimes we like other personalities more than what is ours and we want to become like them.  Many of us forget one of the most important human characteristics – we are each unique human beings, with unique histories, patterns of thinking and personalities. There is no duplication in humanity. One of the deepest habits that we learn is to compare ourselves with others. We forget that we cannot be like, look like, act like any other person. Imitation always ends in failure, especially if we are dependent on being like someone else for how we feel about ourselves. We buy into the belief that if we can suc...

Concentration

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  -CONCENTRATION Concentration and focus helps us to achieve much more than what we feel we can.  Concentration is basically having the mind and the intellect on the same object.    Mind is our thinking faculty and intellect is the faculty which visualises. For eg. You create a thought - My house (this is the mind) and immediately you will be able to see how your house looks (this is the intellect). What we see then gets imprinted inside. If instead of the house the picture that comes to you is of your college, then the mind starts thinking about the college and we say our concentration has broken. So the mind and intellect should work together. So when you are studying, what ever you are reading try and also visualise it. If the intellect is not busy in visualising what you are reading then the intellect will start seeing other pictures (for eg. friends, movies etc..) and then the mind will also go there and concentration is broken.    Also practicing sile...

Performance in Studies

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  PERFORMANCE IN STUDIES Regarding your doubts in your own capability. It is good to concentrate only on the present and perform well. If you worry about the result - you create fear and this effects your performance today and then that might have the impact on your performance. So it is not the competition which will cause any damage but it is your own fear. So just focus on your study and take each day as it comes. There is no competition with anyone. Each one of is on our own journey. We need to be sincere and put in the best to OUR capacity. We should be honest with ourselves. We cannot perform according to other’s capacity. At every step in life whether in studies or career – we will perform according to our capacity and our values and principles, and so it is our journey. And we will reach when and where only based on our effort. Competing with anyone only means looking at their performance, and using that to scare ourselves. Thoughts of fear reduce our capacity to perform. F...

My destiny is in my Hands

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Y our destiny is in your hands. Do not lead your life according to what you are told, lead it according to what you want it to be. If you believe what you have been told, those will be your thoughts and hence your destiny. So create your own belief and that will become your destiny. Experimenting with the above cycle we understand that our thoughts determine our destiny, which means we are the creators of our destiny. The source of our thoughts is – 1. Past experiences 2. Information  3. Belief Systems Based on the above it means that information influences thoughts which determines destiny, whereby we understand why predictions come true. Prediction is information and therefore influences destiny. Astrology is science, and predictions are based on calculations, but these will affect those who allow external factors – planetary movements, situations, other’s behaviours to influence their state of mind.  But for those who work on their thought process, are aware of themselves b...

Inner Powers through Murli,(Godly versions)

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Keep Aim..One task at a time.. šŸŽsilence bal, šŸŠantarmukhta ka bal.. šŸ‘shaktiyaan Jama.. šŸ’leckage band. šŸ‡Experiment it's  power at least once. šŸ«’Accumulate shudh  vichar from murli & classes. šŸ„‘Do things in a different  way each day. 🄄Experiment with different points  & experience  inner change(smriti  se stithi)that experience  in your diary. šŸ‰Being in this world, šŸ­see one father listen to one father,talk to one father. šŸ©This world 's scenes should have  no impact on my mind.Ekras.Ninda stuti,Maan apman ,such dukh eksamaan.Practise. šŸ“Have no expectations  from this world rather see everyone as  🄨shudh aatma sometimes, šŸ«‘sometimes as bechara, šŸ„•sometimes through their visheshta, 🄦some times as weak one whom I need to empower through my yogyukt  stage & karma.   Accumulate points on each topic separately.. 🫐Rahem dil,shubh bhavna šŸŽAatmic drishti šŸˆNyarayan šŸ’Variety souls,variety parts..understanding ...

Who am I ,continued ....

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  I am a compassionate soul,who lives open armed to accept & treat everyone with respect & care  & further empower them towards their true nature of peace & love.  I embrace life in all its colors without being critical & judgmental towards differences I see all around me.I see myself as one part of this beautiful God,'s creation & see the interconnectedness all around me & feel myself complete within this harmony. I chose to remain courageous & brave in every morally correct action  I do.As I do so I keep on increasing my worth as a good human being with a mindset of one who follows religion in every action. I silently walk through life with dignity & Royalty.I choose to be humble & give everyone the cooperation to understand their real nature of being selfless & unconditional in everyone action they perform.  I don't wait for the life to happen to me,instead I take step to make it happen & enjoy a sense of satisf...

Who am I:)

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I  am a fortunate soul who is completely filled with all godly attainments .I am free from desires .I find my peace in giving. My connection to own self strengthens with every act of charity I do by being stabilized in my real self.My bond with my ownself is the most reliable connection that I can rely on. I am a knowledgefull soul who is free from any questions.I live awakened & see my purpose in just being the best version of my ownself. I am a soul whose every action silently guides all the other fellow souls around me to follow the righteous code of conduct & set an example of divinity in action. I am a responsible soul who cares for the self & all the living forms around me to grow & heal from the state of passivity to activity.

MY Success

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  My success lies is in being in more control of myself. Success lies in being more involved in life & yet less attached to it. My measure of success is my ability to realise & enjoy my present achievements  The parameter of my success is the contentment I feel in my inner truth. The more I use my inner powers for self fulfillment, the more I start becoming free from outside dependencies.That is success ,being free from dependencies;) May you always remain an embodiment of success & enjoy success as God fatherly Birth Right, Love & Light A successful staršŸ’„

Problems are nothing,

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A Very interesting  & topic worth understanding   Problems are nothing but creations of our weak mind। The more we think or talk about something, we give energy to it to make it big। First of all Remind yourself,I am different  from situation, I am different from my mind(thoughts)I am more powerful than any situation I have an impact over outside situations, Not that They have an impact over me Become detached from the situation & see it from A distance ,feel yourself more powerful than it, Relax,calm yourself,empower yourself & you will see everything as passing phase If there is a solution,it will come from your inside only & unveals itself at right time,then why worry , And if there is no Solution from your side then also Why worry Let me Relax & calm myself & think only powerful & peaceful thoughts to face all situations with ease & pass them with Royalty & dignity  May you Be easy yogi & always be on Solution side। Ha...

Role of God & Drama Revisted

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God creates drama for us depending upon our will power(karma,beliefs & pure desires) This Drama is accurate,Real,beneficial This drama's creator,औायरेक्टर ,principal Actor is my father। I am the Hero actor in this drama। Everything in this Drama revolves around me & is in my favour, I am the creator of drama,Everything around me is perfectly laid when I get ready for it,Universe ,nature  & even the creator of whole world moves with my timing, Whole world, universe & nature conspires to fulfill all my needs & serve me,,,, God's Timing,plan & protection All my plans surrendered to God & then  He takes over ,God's Timing is always perfect। When you don't see anything fruitful around,,,When you don't understand, Realise God is working for you God protects us at every step ,gives us right understanding of what to do & when to do, He knows our potential, He makes us our best version, May be the patience is bitter but its fruits are really s...

Affirmations for Soul Awareness

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  Soul Awareness for creating Destiny. I am the Master of my mind, intellect,& Sanskaars. I am the creator of my thoughts. I have the power to channelise my thoughts & create my feelings ,change attitudes,develop new habits,create personality & hence destiny of my choice. My life,my creation. I am the master controller of mind,intellect & my latent habits.I have the power to control,rule over my subtle powers & put them under my control by exercising them regularly at will. My mind is my friend.It listens to me.It is my inner child.By lovingly talking to it ,I start to love my inner child & it starts obeying me What I focus on grows. Soul Awareness for Health I am a Powerful soul. I am the Master of this body My every thought has an effect over my body. With the power of pure,elevated thoughts I heal my mind.I heal my body.I am a natural healer. Soul Awareness for right judgment & decision making @ work or in relationships I am a knowledgeful soul,I have...

Actions & affirmation IN Various Daily incidences of life.

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  Giving lesson to someone  Raise their self Respect first .You are right with such & such things..much appreciated..great.(show some interest in their life..)oh you did this..wow,you are so courageous. You are so wonderful, awesome.Kindly share your story with us so that we too learn & refine ourselves.After this ,slowly give teaching /lesson for any flaw that you may feel,very positively & respectfully with good wishes keeping in front their many qualities & achievements. Appreciating & making other feel special & worthy,Making their heart happy,while you visit someone You do so many tasks.oh wow,How do you such mange things with such perfection. WHAT is your secret of such power & memory.Address them by very loveful,sweet,powerful names...sweetie,lovely,princess,Mahavirni etc. Creating plays,games,little Celebrations to uplift spirits of others. Feeling doubt on some experienced soul This much is right,I understood.They are so experienced & e...

Divinity in Expression(swaroop)

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Divinity—dance  forms,music forms Connection with God…purest way to express love, Happiness and remembrance of the one The facial expressions,the hands (mudrayen) The walk (movements)…The poses…expresses the limitless Happiness…the stars,the moon,the heaven…the Divine meeting (Milan)..the flowers,the rivers.[waving hands moving in circles,ques) Music to express different moods of a soul Thanks…God’s gracešŸ’–…I put myself so down…and you saw my little qualities,filled them with your powers and made me valuable.šŸ’«I considered my self  the one who will always be slave(daas)šŸ¤ and deserve to be in your toes (चरणों की धूल)and you lifted me up and put me in your arms🤲, your eyes and made me even your master and served me day and night. Joyous ….just like that…☺flying like a bird…Fulfilled like a kingšŸ‘¼…Got what I needed in life…got all answers…no questions…no doubts…I just Like being myselfšŸ‘°‍♀️…I simply fly with the wind & flow like water Ah at last….aakhir veh din aaye aaj…Met...