jealousy or opposition/rejection or hatered or of I/me/mine or further of 'I like things this way'
and 'there is no other way'.or is it of 'I am the owner,i know how things are managed,I am experienced,this is how it happens,everyone should agree with me')
For changing our Attitude (vriti),we have to first accept them that they are there,then we should see how much hard i try to sustain them,they are doing no good to me nor the others.I lose the hold on my inner power.And If,in the process of controlling situations i cause harm to anyone with something that is not righteous.people will not like me for that.Baba tells us
the solution,that use your vritis for benefiting world,don't spend time fighting with them,simply transform them,this way we will be able to get rid of negative consequences of old patterns of
dissatisfaction,anger,confusion,doubt,hatred,clashes that it was bringing to me when i was using my vriti for self fulfillment.Now when i use it for world's benefit,it will fulfill me First,bring happiness Second,increase self respect Third,increase power fourth,bring wisdom fifth,develop strength in my character sixth,bring purity and truthfulness in nature.
Dear souls, For serving the world,we just have to take some time out for once and understand & contemplate over the phsychology and needs of different kinds of people,why people think and do things in a certain way ,this way we open our doors of acceptance & are able to accomodate them and realise that nobody is wrong on their parts,we all have our conditions & reasons,knowing this we will either cooperate with them as it is,or help them find solution to the issue at hand.And if neither of it is possible,we tell them to leave it on time and let the things settle down in its due time.We realise that we simply had good wishes & pure feelings for them & we talked sweetly this time with them, all this became possible by just one change & that was 'me first',and the firm belief over my self respect of me being the 'world benefactor'.This itself makes us pure as we learn to see goodness in all and handle things with a balanced approach and icing over the cake,we further develop a skill of enjoying everything that comes our way and yet able to get detached from it in a second,like an actor playing a hero part and now he is detached from his part after leaving the stage,back home,dress changed.No effect,Perfect shot. Good show!! Well played.. Applaud... Fan following.. Lime light..Once more!! Photograph please.😊
In Baba's sweet remembrance,
Om shanti.
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