Is Leaving a Relation Completely an only "Option"for getting the" Detachment " Easy.💡
You had a very good relation,understanding ,positive energy exchange with someone.🏹
You see the :-
Love(Great,Well done,Nice),
Care(Take care,)
Goodwishes(May You reach heights)
Respect(Do it the way you like,freedom of choice)
Suddenly you start to feel ,you need the both,the relationship as well as your freedom. For that what is the way.🎃
Let's start seeing from beginning what happens when two souls comes in close connection with each other.They try to change each other a little,start presenting their opinion which we usually resist & not very open to.We like to live & work in our fixed ways ,Anyone who tries to bring in any new idea or opinion,🎊 ,we straightfully reject them giving our own reasoning/justification for why things are like this the way they are.
Our intellect's reasoning & analysis is so fast that we are able to process past,present & future at a fast lightening speed that we imagine only hurdles that are going to come if we adopt the change in our mindset & oversee the possibility of a better life that will come after we adopt the change.🎄
Life is uncertain ,Life is diverse & that itself is the beauty of it.Sometimes it really comes as a surprise & offers you enormous 🎁gifts.The question comes here again, Am I Open .
Am I available .Am I ready to change.
Do I trust life & all that happens around,or do I always questions with own set of if's & but's & conditions that this should happen or that should happen.🎉
I am elder,I know better,I am on a position.
What actually happens is by saying all above we are closing the way to love & goodwishes from the others.The souls fear coming closer to you as you are a posing a threat in front of them on their self respect.🥇
Love,respect ,trust all is at stake at that moment.
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Let's pose a solution to the situation,
Agreed,We have our reasoning,issues,seniority,real life time bound challenges with completely fixed disciplined schedules for fixed set of activities & meetings with fixed set of people.🎭
Anything/anyone new from outside seems like a distraction,a problem,a challenging situation .Well,it all depends upon our mindset again.How we see them,..as a threat,a problem or the one who is a well wisher who understands you,respects you,cares for you.Give it some time,give it a chance.The more you create the vibration of :-♠️
"They don't understand "
"They don't know the value of time/thoughts ".
"They don't know the principles of work,office laws & discipline "
"They don't know the spiritual laws of sadhna & soul's recording process".
"They don't know what to say or what not to" and so on.
The more you see it in reality🌞. That's why it is rightly said that " It's all in mind".The things on which we focus more grows bigger & bigger in reality.🎲
Therefore before believing any weak thought that is coming in your mind,check & examine it for it's reality of How true is it in current times.🌟Times are changing at a fast pace,am I also changing with time at a same pace or am I holding on my old beliefs in my mindset creating an uncomfortable space for my ownself along with others who have a very good & pure feeling 🌈for us & we are sitting in our own self created cookons not ready to accept them & their elevated feelings for us feeding our own 🏓doubts,assumptions, fears & insecurities remaining close in our small little shells☔ of old thinking patterns & beliefs ,being stubborn, fearful,adamant & arrogant in our lives ,becoming a matter of concern for our loved ones causing them worry & tension affecting their life too.🏑
A more intelligent approach apart from judging,labeling & fearing our loved ones would be to clearly talking out the matters & take their kind advice over the matter & make them come to terms with your current situation🏈 & decisions & they willingly give you a leave to carry on your work related duties or even the spiritual endeavors🔊. Be sure that,NO one wants to come in your path to perfection, it's just that it feels good to meet ,care ,share feelings with others & give each other a feeling of belongingness for a better psychological strength & support⛳.This is something a spiritual person should itself plan, to give due attention(by having a talk,giving/sharing little things,sharing ideas) to their loved ones well considering it to be equally important apart from their existing duties & endeavors.Being responsible with this aspect too as you are with other areas of your life.🎯
So,The path to spirituality is not leaving our loved ones,running away from them labeling them with not being "so called knowledge full",⚡ ,it is to realize our own" mental cages" &" confused state of mind" that we create confusion & disregard for them too in our hurry & rush causing them hurt.🔕So,on one hand we are doing spiritual efforts for becoming bondage free & on the other hand we are causing others more pain & hurt with our limited attitudes & ❄️unaware/uncontrolled thinking & thus creating more karmic bondages.
Apart from everything else we always have a wonderful Tool of Check & Change🔔 bringing in peace & Happiness in everyone's life.🎼
Thanks & om shanti.
IBY♥️
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