For better Efficiency & productivity @ work
Analyze,plan,organize & manage,.....,,,,🕊️🌴
Your thoughts,words,attitudes, actions & of corse your material & non material resources.,🎓
Prioritize & order your activities right & come into action with right vision.🤔
Do everything with full faith...your skill,your abilities or your peers.🚣
Use your soul's Intuitive powers for judgement & Decision making for any situation that you face.🏋️
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Tests & Trials in Life
Go for it.Trust yourself. Create destiny of your choice.
Difficulties in Life are Reminders for :-
Expectation means predicting the future behaviour of others. Letting our happiness be dependent on their behaviour and then feeling let down if they do not behave as we had predicted.
People around us will behave and work according to their capacity, we can share with them what we feel is right, but cannot expect that they will always do it our way.
When we do something for others, we do it according to our values and capacity. To expect the same from others is unfair to them. We need to understand they will behave only according to their capacity. Let us not give up our qualities because others did not respond the way we expected.
Expectations can however be put to a powerful use. To expect the best of someone is to have a vision of them performing at their best. To create that vision is to transmit that vision to them which is a form of empowering them with the energy of encouragement. And the same applies to our self. It is no accident that in the last decade all the top sports men and women have resorted less to the adrenaline ‘hit’ to induce peak performance, and more to visualising their own ‘excellence’ before going anywhere near the tennis court and the golf course etc. They build such a positive vision of themselves that when they do go out and perform they reach their peak with greater ease. They don’t expect to fail but they are prepared to fail. So when you expect the best of your child or your employee or your partner you have created a positive and elevated vision of them, which they can sense coming from you. And when they see that you don’t become unhappy and upset when they don’t get there exactly when or in the way you expected, they still feel your support, they still feel your encouragement, they are still empowered by your authentic ‘care’ about them. You cease to ‘transmit’ to them that they are responsible for your happiness. They cease to feel the pressure of another’s expectations. They are no longer disempowered by your narrow concern for your own happiness. They no longer fear your ‘emotional reaction’ if they don’t reach the stars… exactly… on time!
To transform an expectation of the other into an empowering vision for the other is possibly one of the greatest gifts anyone can give to …anyone!
If people have expectations from us - we need to understand we cannot fulfill all of them. We need to be comfortable with what we are doing. If someone expects us to do something - we do it for their happiness - that still means we are doing it for ourselves (because their happiness matters to us) - not for them.
We need to make it our own and do it for ourselves because then we will be ready to take personal responsibility.
If we cannot do it - we need to convey it with the right energy - that we do not mean to offend, but it is not possible for us.
